I have been through 25 years of domestic abuse and I finally left him. The children don’t want to see him and he has taken me to court to see them. I have 3 older kids with him and 2 younger ones. The older ones don’t speak to him at all after what he was like with them growing up.
The younger kids don’t want to see him either but he is trying to get Joint custody Or just to see them. He lets them down a lot and they are constantly upset by his lies , I am trying to shield the younger ones from the emotional abuse The older kids had to endure growing up. I can’t afford a solicitor but I need to tell the courts exactly what he is like. Can my older kids have a say in court ?