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05 Sep 12 #354072 by zonked
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To be honest I found the figure of £150 per week a bit suspect too.

Many of the costs lumped in are things which many wouldn''t see as essentially child related.

For example


''...MIS assumes that the arrival of this [first] child triggers the need
for a car, in order to achieve an acceptable living standard. This typically accounts for between one-third and one-half of the overall
additional cost of the first child. Most of the other additional costs are divided roughly evenly between clothing, household goods and personal goods and services, such as toiletries and health costs...''.

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06 Sep 12 #354255 by Child Maintenance Options
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Hi

Thanks for your post.

With you and the other parent having your own arrangement in place, you can decide between yourselves how much child maintenance you pay, and even what counts as child maintenance. For example, you could agree that your contribution towards School trips counts as child maintenance for your children. This is called a family-based arrangement, and many separated parents find that this type of arrangement is the easiest and most flexible way to sort out child maintenance.

In terms of monetary amounts, you can get an idea what your child maintenance payments would be through the CSA using the Child Maintenance Options calculator. You could also use this amount as a starting point for your family-based arrangement.

If you''d like some more information about how the CSA works out child maintenance, visit direct.gov.uk. For information and support on family-based arrangements'', call the Options team on 0800 988 0988.

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06 Sep 12 #354256 by Child Maintenance Options
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Hi

Thanks for your post.

With you and the other parent having your own arrangement in place, you can decide between yourselves how much child maintenance you pay, and even what counts as child maintenance. For example, you could agree that your contribution towards School trips counts as child maintenance for your children. This is called a family-based arrangement, and many separated parents find that this type of arrangement is the easiest and most flexible way to sort out child maintenance.

In terms of monetary amounts, you can get an idea what your child maintenance payments would be through the CSA using the Child Maintenance Options calculator. You could also use this amount as a starting point for your family-based arrangement.

If you''d like some more information about how the CSA works out child maintenance, visit direct.gov.uk. For information and support on family-based arrangements'', call the Options team on 0800 988 0988.

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07 Sep 12 #354341 by retep69
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Thank you all.My solicitor has drawn up a Consent Order, and refers to this extra payment as "voluntary".

We have not specified the amount.Is it best to leave "voluntary" as a caveat or would it be better to specify the amount?

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11 Sep 12 #355258 by Child Maintenance Options
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Hi,

Thanks for the post.

It''s good to hear that you''re willing to co-operate with your ex-partner - you''re clearly keeping the welfare of your children in mind, which is a great start. Other people who have been in a similar situation have found that an open and honest conversation with their ex-partner really helps.

I understand that it''s a difficult situation but I would urge you to try and sort things out amicably with your ex-partner, as family-based arrangement (without the involvement of the CSA or the courts) are usually the best option for everyone involved.

For more information about family-based arrangements and access to useful tools and forms online you can visit www.cmoptions.org, or if you''d prefer a confidential chat you could call the Child Maintenance Options team on 0800 988 0988 (free from a landline).

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13 Sep 12 #355725 by retep69
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I wanted a consent order beacuse I wanted to protect my pension and our split of assets.

Does the consent order even need to include child maintenance if we can work out a family based arrangement?

I think my stbx may want more assurance than that provides though.......

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13 Sep 12 #355736 by WYSPECIAL
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retep69 wrote:

Does the consent order even need to include child maintenance if we can work out a family based arrangement?


No it doesn''t need to be included.

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