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hollys wrote: I'm really struggling to understand how, by simply telephoning the CMS and making an application to them to take control of child maintenance payments by paying £20, they can then override a Court Order that we both agreed on and spent thousands preparing through solicitors!
My ex is angry because I've stopped him from seeing the children. It would appear that the police, social services and the Court all agree with me that head butting our son isn't appropriate. However, the ex thinks this behaviour is OK and now, because he's not allowed to see the children until the Court permits, he wants to punish me.
After our court hearing last week, he immediately made a claim to the CMS. In theory, the payment for the children will reduce by approximately 40%.
Upon speaking with the CMS, there's not really much I can do.
Does anyone else agree that this is absolutely farcical? What is the legislation that has permitted this to be allowed? It seems so flippant. I wasn't told about this by my solicitor.
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