why on earth did i believe it when he/she said....

Her to me: I'm going to friend's Saturday housewarming party on the Friday a day early to help her prepare and then stay to help her clear up, coming back a day later.

Open E-mail to home address from said friend on the Friday: Sorry you can't make the party, I hope you have a nice time.

Me: ???????????????????????????????????

On our anniversary about a week before he told me he was having an affair

I sent my card down to him in the kitchen with my son.
Inside were tickets to go see Jools Holland that night.

He came upstairs and said thanks and I was expecting my card but didn’t get one, he said he forgot. First time in 13 years.
He went out to town with our son to get one and when he came back he said oh sorry I forgot.

Was I stupid!!

rubytuesday wrote:

Me - are you having an affair with xxxx?
him - its not likethat
(yeah right!)[/quote]

Yeah, I got something like that too

Sometimes I think I must have "SUCKER" written on my head in big red letters for believing any of it

One of many tales I could tell:-

My then wife had been on a night out and came back in late...I was sleeping in the spare bedroom at this time.

I got up with the kids in the morning, her mum rang about 10am saying it was urgent.

I took the phone upto her and went in the bedroom to wake her. "Your mum is on the phone says it's urgent"

"Oh 5hit" was her reply as she looked up at me with bloodshot drunken eyes.

I handed her the phone and noticed her clothes strewn across the floor and also another set of male clothes on the floor too. There was a large shape under the duvet.

On my way out of the room I shouted "And you can tell you mum about the man you have lying next to you whilst you are on to her !!"

I am still friends with her mum, her mum has disowned her !!

him 'you don't mind me emailing this guy to meet him for oral sex do you'
me' well erm erm yes its a bit erm erm'
him'ok oh sorry i'll set up a private email address so you don't get upset i don't want to upset you'!!!

I've got a few of these. I will post them as I have time.

Six weeks after I found out about ex2b's affair, I took my two kids away during the summer hols for a week to my sisters. When we returned I checked the internet history on the home computer and found that her boyfriend had logged into his company's email account at 9.30pm on the Thursday evening and again at 8.30am on the Friday morning. When I confronted ex2b with the evidence, she initially denied it and said he had gone back to his parents house overnight and then come back the next morning. When I told her bullsh*t and said he had stayed and slept in my bed she admitted he had stayed but said they had slept on the sofa together - yes right!

Mon