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28 Apr 12 #326996 by raybird
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hi bluebird, take note of the others advice, there very wise, i went on ADs when he left, they take 4 weeks to start kicking in, they will help, been on them 4 months now. look after yourself, things will get better, 4 months for me now, and things are slowly starting to get better, im in the south east, ive PM you, take care xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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01 May 12 #327689 by Bluebird88
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Thank you all so much for your responses, i am trying to keep postive, i have good days, yesterday was one of these- but then i slip into a down (like today) and i honestly think that if i wasnt here noone would notice or care...especially the person i want to care most- my Ex....

I just want this pain to stop :(

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01 May 12 #327700 by johnt153
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Hi Bluebird,

I know exactly where you''re coming from - it''s only a few days since the supposed love of my life ended us by text and to be honest I feel like I''d rather die. But I won''t - nobody''s worth this. That they have treated us in such a fashion is a measure of their worth, not ours.


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07 May 12 #328936 by Bjc67
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Hi Bluebird
One thing is for sure you are not alone. I was married for 1 year until 4 weeks ago when I came home to find all her belongings gone.
Devastated is an understatement, I am really struggling but I have read on here of the many other people that are going through the same emotions and I take strength from the messages of support.
I am assured it will get easier as time goes on and I am a firm believer in that things happen for a reason.
Stay strong and all the support you need is on here from some amazing people offering wise words of direction to help you through this.

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