Sleepless nights again

Julie, put the kettle on, take some deep breaths or even thump a pillow. Sometimes it all becomes too much and you need to let it out in a safe way.

I have no idea how they know when we are vulnerable, just that they do.I suppose after a long marriage they know the buttons to press. You are not going to get anywhere with him on your own so let the solicitor send the letter.

You can do this Julie, you have support here.
((((Big Hugs))))

NWTT. xx

Will sign the letter and post it on my way out with the dogs. His texts went from nice to nasty to nice again several times. He even suggested my daughter who has just left for unihelp me with the mortgage etc. What a b*stard, he has changed so much since his association with the skank he is with now. Honestly he would have been appalled if he had heard someone was behaving as he is now, totally spineless.

They do change Julie, I don''t know any part of the man I spent the majority of my life with. Have you thought about having no contact? it upsets you when you do and he has nothing to offer.

Take the dogs for a good brisk walk and remember to post the letter xx

Haven''t felt this down in ages, people will slate me for this but the truth is it would have been better if he had died. What about the kids people will say but he causes them so much anguish too surely it can''t be worth it.

I''m not slating you for this thought - quite the opposite - I quite understand.

I am sorry you are having such a rough time at the moment.

Thankyou Scary

I have posted everything back to solicitor while out with dogs so it is in her hands now.
Apparently my son and myself have had 55% of his basic wage between us. Really well BASIC is the word to look at because her earns far more than his basic wage and when he realsise he has to disclose his wages and bank statements I don''t thin he will be happy.

I am not asking for the world just a little help until I get back to work but hey lets spend thousands fighting over a couple of hundred pounds, makes perfect sense to me (not).