Don''t let this happen to you!

I got ill from it too it''s awful so I''m totally understanding how u feel but I think we need to push for this divorce..the both of us do need to learn from the OP eh? Else we will end up with their debt while they no doubt feel from it it and rack it up again ...

Fgs what''s wrong with people that they truly don''t care about others??

Hope u get it all sorted and OP, I hope u manage to stop things in favour of u x

This is a worrying read...can this only happen because you jointly own assets like the family home so a debt company can attribute the debt to it?

It''s important to remember each case is different and often rely on good judgement. Sometimes a delay enables one party to run up debts against matrimonial assets leaving the other party financially disadvantaged. Other times a delay of a year or so allowing both parties time to readjust to the emotional realities of separation/divorce means more constructive progress can be made more quickly and cheaply. That may save tens or even hundreds of thousands of pounds.