Anyone else had reaction like this?

you are so right marshy chin up to us all. my stbx blames ME for breaking the family, says would have never opted for divorce, as I was well treated roof over my head money to spend, oh I should feel grateful for all of the above, but hey it was all about sex but loved only me. that he has every right to sleep around hey he''s a man and that''s what men do. great shame on me for taking a decision that enough is enough and try and recover some of the dignity he so shattered.

sherrara wrote:

it was all about sex but loved only me. that he has every right to sleep around hey he''s a man and that''s what men do.

Thats not what men do. Its what dogs do. Ok I know some men act like dogs but hey. And he has no right to betray you and risk your sexual health by doing this to you.

So you took charge of your life? He obviously wants his penny and the bun. This is the modern world not the 1800''s and no one has the right to act this way. Only can ever be 2 people in a marriage last time I checked never 3, 4 or 40. Thats just so wrong on so many levels and shame on you for ending his sexual dream where he can have sex with who he wants and expect dinner on the table after his marathon sessions with the local tarts.

But a word to the wise. Go and see your local sexual health clinic and get checked for the usual''s. HEPA, B and HIV. The quick HIV test comes back straight away. There is a more detailed one and when I had to do it, it took 4 - 6 weeks to come back. The service is discrete and no one needs to know. They notify you by text message. I know this sounds extreme. But if he has had lots of sexual partners (and they in turn also had lots of sexual partners) then you ought to get yourself checked out to make sure. An SDI is something you do not want to carry into the future. I had to do this when I found out about my ex and what she was up to. I am glad I did and it all came back clean which was a relief. She never knew BTW. But have a think about it. Even to put your mind at rest.

Marshy.