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29 Jul 22 - 29 Jul 22 #519694 by Helpmesos
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Hi
my daughter is recieving and is getting verbal and very very bad text from her ex she has tried for several months to deal with the daily abuse but it is now effecting her health and last week she collapsed from stress due to the daily constant barrage of abuse caused by her x .
I have tried as a father to be very patient for my grandchildren sake but is now effecting them as they don't even want to talk to there dad because all he does is slags there mum off when talking to them he cannot compute they are now divorced and have been for 3 years now.
you would not believe the text messages she has been getting it is bang out of order and disgusting.
Does anyone know a agency that might be able to help my daughter sort this disgusting vial human being out to stop this harassment as we just don't know what it where to go for help in the situation
Last edit: 29 Jul 22 by Helpmesos.

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29 Jul 22 - 29 Jul 22 #519696 by rubytuesday
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She needs to report this to the Police - this is clearly harassment. She should consider a non-molestation order too to prevent him from contacting her.

In the meantime, she needs to block his number from her phone, as well as instant messaging apps like WhatsApp, etc; that should provide her with a bit of respite.

For communication about the children, there are a number of websites and apps that allow parents to communicate with each other via a private message board - some of these apps/sites monitor the messages and filter out the abusive ones, so that recipient isn't subjected to abuse.

She does not have to put up with this.
Last edit: 29 Jul 22 by rubytuesday.

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