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Getting fed up with this now!!

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8 years 11 months ago #279885 by mightyredmen
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As some of you are aware I have finished mediation and thought we had come to agreement re mesher order. In fact the mediator is drawing up the agreement as we speak. In the meantime I had spoke to Nationwide re reducing the interest only mortgage further. I was offered a 3 year tracker which would reduce the mortgage on the fmh by roughly £50 per month.

This morning I collected the girls to look after them while stbx went to work. My stbx bodly tells me that she has not agreed to mortgage reduction and that she wants this over asap and nothing more to do with me. She stated she wanted a clean break! I said that they only way that would happen is if the house was sold I got my 40%. She replied that she is thinking about that and repeated the threat about taking girls away and moving to a cheaper area as she couldnt afford this area. She also stated that she was contacting the CSA re CM . I told her that to go ahead but I wouldnt be paying the mortgage that she should be taking over.

Once again she is doing my head in. Instead of enjoying time with my girls she has me stressing about this. What about our mediation agreement?

Had enough now of this sh*te!!

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8 years 10 months ago #285151 by mightyredmen
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Update:

Well my nisi was last Monday at 10. The mediator has copied me into a letter he has sent to stbx asking what she intends to do re the mesher, do we have agreement or not.

Mortgage is now interest only and roughly £250 per month after she signed 3 year tracker.

What next? 6 weeks from absolute and 6 months of mediation but still she drags her feet. There is nothing more I can offer her financially. If it goes to court how can she get more than being able to stay in fmh and CM. I'm not a professional footballer!

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