In October/November he asked me when I am off for next August and asked if he could have a week 2 weeks later to take the children on holiday. To which I agreed.
Other than that he provides me with his rota on the 22nd of the month, for the following month. For February we are both off during the
school holidays and the first I heard of it was on the 22nd Jan. So approx 3 weeks notice. Yet he has know my holiday dates since October.
Over the weekend I got a "I''m not available during this time to have the children in June as we are away" message
Personally I dont think you have any right to know when his leave is and giving you 3 months notice that he is unavailable isnt that unreasonable. (If it was a couple of days notice then that would be )
How much holiday contact
does he have with the children? What are the arrangements. Does the contact pattern just continue?
There are no arrangements. Generally if I am off then I have days out planned and he has to fit in around that. He has never had more than a week without it being a holiday. He usually declines more than 3 days in a row.
there was a conversation in the court where he agreed to liase with me over the booking of annual leave.