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Decree absolute arrived

perin123
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23 Mar 12 #319694 by perin123

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Well my Decree Absolute dropped through the letterbox this morning.
I had asked for it to be stayed until finances sorted but I got a letter from the court dated 19th March stating the judge didn''t believe there was a problem and that I would have to make an application to court to put my case forward.
But they granted the absolute on the same day anyway??? (19th)
Guess I don''t have a choice.....

ditchedagain11
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23 Mar 12 #319696 by ditchedagain11

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just to say congrats on receiving your Absolute Perin. xx

perin123
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23 Mar 12 #319698 by perin123

Reply from perin123

Thanks DA. Strange to think congratulations are in order!!!!
Quite sad in a way, yet when I think of what my ex is like now ans what he is capable of, I''m better off without him.

dukey
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23 Mar 12 #319701 by dukey

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So you ask the judge stays the Absolute, the judge rights back and asks you make an on notice application, but send the Absolute back at the same time.

Have i been transported to Mars? the courts seem to be bonkers of late.

Emma8485
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23 Mar 12 #319702 by Emma8485

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Could you forward copies of the whole lot back,asking why you were told to put your case forward but then it was granted anyway?

perin123
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23 Mar 12 #319714 by perin123

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I just rang the court and asked what had happened.
I was told that when ex applied for Absolute there was nothing in place to stop him, as I had not made an application.

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sillywoman
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23 Mar 12 #319727 by sillywoman

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Perin you are now a free woman, your ex has shown his true colours via your little boy, so just be glad he is GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!

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