fmh occupancy

Sorry if I confused anyone I mean me and kids move in and him move out not us live together maybe on a mesher or something until youngest is 18?

If you haven''t already done so I would recommend seeing a solicitor to find out where you stand and what options there are in your particular circumstances. Even if you then decide to do-it-yourself you can do so from an informed position.

You may be able to apply for a non molestation and occupation order which would prevent your ex from coming near you and occupation of the property if you have recently moved out.

Alternatively you can press on with the financial settlement, but you may be at a disadvantage when it comes to moving back to the former matrimonial home because you and the children are already have your housing needs met elsewhere.