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Finally (nearly) over

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3 weeks 3 days ago #514253 by Olim222
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Just a quick resume of my experiences of the divorce process

Was basically bullied into a civil partnership in 2014. Found out the ex was cheating in 2017. Divorce process started last year, took longer than it should have as the ex never returned the AoS on time. Got the final order through last week, was amazed it came back within three days of me sending the form off to make the decree nisi into absolute.
Bury st Edmunds divorce centre have been very good.

Sent the ex a load of money last year, he demanded an amount which I eventually agreed to. I wanted to wait until the nisi had been issued and use a consent order but was getting several texts and calls daily hassling me for the money. He was also making suicidal comments and threats so I was pretty much forced to send the money over. Solicitors letter landed last week asking for disclosure of finances with regards to a financial order which should make things interesting!

House in my name, mortgage in my name and the ex has never once paid for anything! No kids thankfully. Will let you guys know how I get on with this next and final step

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3 weeks 1 hour ago #514304 by LorrieDriver
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Will be interested in the outcome, I am about to embark on this slippery slope !

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