I'm here again asking for further advice on my situation as I am at my wits end and getting rather stressed and burnt out because of my ex's blatant refusal to co operate with the court proceedings.
An FDR was scheduled for 16th Dec but a week prior I had written to the court asking for this to be a further directions hearing as I still had not received all necessary information from him. This was after a questionnaire and schedule of deficiencies had been filed and, whereas I had received some answers to my questionnaire (not all and not all evidence either), I never received anything in response to the schedule of deficiencies. (I just want to add that the information I asked for was reasonable and was required in order that a fair settlement was reached)
At the December hearing, the judge made further orders that he reply to my schedule of deficiencies, including an explanation in relation to any questions not answered, by January 8th.
Low and behold I have not received anything and I am at a loss now as to my next move. The judge wasn't overly sympathetic to the case, in fact he seemed annoyed that it would be drawn out further - well, he is not the only one!
Please can someone tell me what I can do next regarding this? I was hoping to have had the info from my ex, had an appointment with my solicitor to discuss and then make an offer without having to go to the next scheduled FDR, which incidentally isn't until July!!!
I am convinced he is hiding savings and won't admit to a private pension that again, I am sure he has and even provided evidence within the schedule of deficiencies I filed. He is not represented (not because he cannot afford it, but because he hates spending money!) and neither am I - I just get advice ad hoc.
Many thanks for reading, I do hope there is something I can do.