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Pets
Hi,

I wondered if anyone has any advice on pets. We agreed at the time of breaking up that I would keep the dogs. At first he didn't want to see them ...
10 Dec 24, by KellyNelly
Replies:0
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Mail intercepted and taken
Hi, a colleague earlier this year got married in India and arrived UK on the husbands visa and is having domestic violence issues. She lives with husband and ...
30 Sep 23, by 2bfreenow
Latest 02 Oct 23 by 2bfreenow
Replies:3
:1664
Latest by 2bfreenow
02 Oct 23
Stamp Duty
Hello
As part of our divorce financial settlement, I will be redeeming the mortgage of the FH which I no longer reside. Once the title and full equity is tr ...
18 Jul 23, by Canalp74
Latest 14 Aug 23 by JCIMS
Replies:1
:392
Latest by JCIMS
14 Aug 23
Friends that helped
Hello guys n gals.
is rubytuesday still on here? ...
28 Jul 23, by chatsworth08
Latest 01 Aug 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:3
:446
Latest by rubytuesday
01 Aug 23
Missing Court Transcripts
To keep it brief I had a MPS (maintenance pending suit) hearing. It was extremely stressful and all my earning and figures were distorted. Nett figures were ove ...
16 May 23, by Canalp74
Replies:0
:510

Decree Absolute
Hi ,

If petitoner apply for Decree Absolute, do respondent also get DA ? What is the time scale for Decree Absolute in St Edmund Bury ?

Note: ...
20 Sep 22, by japin
Latest 26 Sep 22 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:503
Latest by rubytuesday
26 Sep 22
Can't find wife
I live in Ireland but got married in London on 3 January 2003. By the end of October that year, we had separated and had not been together since. Now almost 20 ...
03 Sep 22, by solatec
Replies:0
:403

Separated - pensions
Hi all
am after some advice please.
been separated over 20 years.
spose didn't work for most of marriage
can they claim pensions accrued after I ...
23 Jun 22, by Moggymom
Latest 25 Jun 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:552
Latest by hadenoughnow
25 Jun 22
HELP A FEW QUESTIONS
  1. Married 1998, two children
  2. Unreasonable behaviour is the reason
  3. Have been existing in the same house for several ...
22 Sep 21, by han1173
Replies:0
:586

User name
Please can anyone tell me how I can change my user name????? ...
19 Sep 21, by Hatton
Latest 20 Sep 21 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:522
Latest by rubytuesday
20 Sep 21
Grounds to sue my family lawyer?
I think I have a strong case, but I don't know the law. Anyone have any suggestions or ideas? ...
07 Feb 21, by EmpireState
Latest 07 Feb 21 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:645
Latest by hadenoughnow
07 Feb 21
Separating when we own a property together
I am separating my partner sadly as it has not worked out. We were gifted £200,000 as a deposit for when we bought the house but now as things haven’t worked ...
13 Dec 20, by Dorothy191
Latest 01 Feb 21 by bonjour
Replies:2
:933
Latest by bonjour
01 Feb 21
Ramifications of leaving home
My wife and I are separating after 20 years and one child of 11.
I moved into the outbuilding but still need to go to house for certain things in washing cl ...
16 Jan 21, by Is this it?
Latest 31 Jan 21 by Is this it?
Replies:2
:993
Latest by Is this it?
31 Jan 21
Next step help, Scottish Divorce
Hello,

I've written about my partner's divorce here previously. In summary, he and his wife lived and married in England, they separated about 8 years ...
09 Oct 20, by LisaW
Latest 10 Oct 20 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:751
Latest by rubytuesday
10 Oct 20
Moving in together
OK so I'm going to make this simple.
Fiance is widow, I'm divorcee.
He wants to buy a house together now and then get married next year. We both have ho ...
15 Jun 20, by Madjon12
Latest 20 Aug 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:813
Latest by hadenoughnow
20 Aug 20
Living arrangements
Hi all,
I'm living with my aunt and her boyfriend/partner while I save for my own place but the boyfriend/partner is saying that if I stay overnight somewhe ...
05 Jul 20, by Nellie,the,elephant
Latest 20 Jul 20 by Nellie,the,elephant
Replies:6
:978
Latest by Nellie,the,elephant
20 Jul 20
Minute of Agreement Scotland
Hi I'm currently on universal credit and going through separation. Would like to do minute of agreement, am I able to get it for free, if not how much does it c ...
15 Jun 20, by Davo123456
Latest 16 Jun 20 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:889
Latest by rubytuesday
16 Jun 20
Non molestation order - reclaiming costs judge ord
I am in hiding from my husband and was awarded a non molestation order against my husband. The judge ordered him to pay all my costs forsolicitors and court co ...
16 Dec 19, by HS1
Latest 18 Dec 19 by .Charles
Replies:1
:1061
Latest by .Charles
18 Dec 19
Tolata / Children's Act
Hi,

Hoping someone can help. I have been with my partner for just over 5 years, we have 2 children under 5 together. We bought a house together about ...
08 Sep 19, by unhappy lady 101
Latest 09 Sep 19 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:1016
Latest by WYSPECIAL
09 Sep 19
Restriction against the land B136
Hi, I've just received a letter from HM Land Registry about a B136 that has been raised regarding my ex partners debt. The flat is in both our names and we have ...
20 May 19, by Mariska
Replies:0
:880

Money claim
Hey guys

I don’t know where to ask for guidance.
My friend got a court order asking another party to pay his money back on the basis of putting t ...
01 Apr 19, by Jane89
Latest 29 Apr 19 by Jane89
Replies:2
:886
Latest by Jane89
29 Apr 19
How do I know if I have an injuction order
How do I tell if I have an injunction or restraining order against me?

Police data access?
Court search?
Scratched head?
Contact the other ...
02 Apr 19, by Allcry
Latest 04 Apr 19 by Allcry
Replies:4
:855
Latest by Allcry
04 Apr 19
Court order to stop phone abuse from ex?
Hi folks, back again.

Reported ex to police for malicious communications (and making potentially highly damaging allegations) which is likely to be inv ...
11 Mar 19, by strongerthanithought
Latest 11 Mar 19 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:717
Latest by rubytuesday
11 Mar 19
Coersion/harassment
Divorced 6 years, ongoing hassle from exh, much abuse of various kinds in marriage. Hardly ever sees kids, cannot communicate civilly, etc.

Brought up ...
07 Mar 19, by strongerthanithought
Latest 07 Mar 19 by strongerthanithought
Replies:2
:885
Latest by strongerthanithought
07 Mar 19
My boy
Hi peeps. Chats here again just asking advice on understanding my 11 yr old boy.
I don't mean animosity or vengeance replays as my boys mum as some know on ...
09 Dec 18, by chatsworth08
Latest 09 Dec 18 by Under60
Replies:1
:824
Latest by Under60
09 Dec 18
House sale
Hi
Could I ask how long is reasonable for house to be up for sale before considering reducing it.
Our property has been up for sale for 5 months and we ...
06 Aug 18, by julie321
Latest 08 Aug 18 by julie321
Replies:15
:2312
Latest by julie321
08 Aug 18
05 Jul 18, by 101guy
Latest 07 Jul 18 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:808
Latest by hadenoughnow
07 Jul 18
Helpful advice
New to Wikivorce, great advice. ...
09 Jun 18, by Nizam12
Replies:0
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Domestis violence
Hello,

I found out that my husband is seeing someone else and for that reason, I want a divorce, but he blackmailing me that if I go further with the d ...
12 May 18, by kaykey
Latest 14 May 18 by Bubblegum11
Replies:1
:896
Latest by Bubblegum11
14 May 18
Trying to understand the ex
Hi guys. Its me....chatsworth. i was on here for a few years sometime ago and the advice i had was amazing. Thanks. However im trying to understand the ex a bi ...
12 Dec 17, by chatsworth08
Latest 30 Dec 17 by chatsworth08
Replies:6
:734
Latest by chatsworth08
30 Dec 17
Didn't think I'd be back here....
29th October, the Mrs tells me we need to think about our marriage. Then she goes and sleeps at a friends house. The next day she says we need to separate, And ...
06 Dec 17, by apps
Latest 30 Dec 17 by polar
Replies:1
:728
Latest by polar
30 Dec 17
MyHouse
The ex has changed the locks to the house for the second time, I still pay the mortgage and all my clothes and personal things are still in the house. She is re ...
05 Dec 17, by badassdad
Latest 06 Dec 17 by badassdad
Replies:2
:777
Latest by badassdad
06 Dec 17
Holidays?
Has anyone got any nice winter holidays booked to take away those winter blues? I'l be off to the alps sometime in feb but like to look for a late deal, i get g ...
29 Oct 17, by falls81
Latest 23 Nov 17 by polar
Replies:1
:998
Latest by polar
23 Nov 17
Tempted to text ex
After reading ex position statement for Final Hearing and seeing he intends to use our daughter as a weapon against me I am tempted to get in touch.
I just ...
14 Oct 17, by julie321
Latest 14 Oct 17 by diamond74
Replies:1
:712
Latest by diamond74
14 Oct 17
Need a break!
Hi everyone,

I'm not going to be on here much for a little while (after the weekend). I have a lot going on at the moment - and I'm feeling a bit like ...
11 Aug 17, by Bubblegum11
Latest 12 Aug 17 by itsbeenalongtime
Replies:8
:1726
Latest by itsbeenalongtime
12 Aug 17
Sparks flying
Happily re-married now, my daughter and stepson are both home from uni.
The trouble is my stepson is bone-idle. He doesn't contribute anything to the home b ...
11 Aug 17, by run1
Latest 12 Aug 17 by Clawed
Replies:5
:759
Latest by Clawed
12 Aug 17
London Wiki meet
Hi all, Would like to say that I would have loved to have joined you all at the meeting today, but unfortunately it is not possible.

I would like to sa ...
29 Apr 17, by wikiliki
Latest 30 Apr 17 by Bubblegum11
Replies:7
:1784
Latest by Bubblegum11
30 Apr 17
Life on the other side..
I'm a few years the other side of my divorce and am married again now, very happily.
I know families are all made up differently but I can't help feeling aw ...
21 Apr 17, by run1
Latest 21 Apr 17 by julie321
Replies:2
:774
Latest by julie321
21 Apr 17
A WARNING TO SINGLE LADIES
Recently my daughter exited a roundabout and ran straight into the back of a car that had jammed its brakes on for no reason.
Of course the law favours the ...
15 Apr 17, by polar
Latest 15 Apr 17 by Bubblegum11
Replies:1
:847
Latest by Bubblegum11
15 Apr 17
iTunes account
I was just wondering if anyone more tech savvy than me ( not difficult ) could help.

Ex has really managed to annoy the kids today. I know it's me he i ...
05 Apr 17, by Hatton1
Latest 05 Apr 17 by itsbeenalongtime
Replies:5
:668
Latest by itsbeenalongtime
05 Apr 17

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