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29 Jun 12 #339920 by KazzyG69
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Hi, I''m new to this forum, I''m KazzyG, I''ve been going through a divorce for two years now and I am the Petitioner but the ''husband'' is continuing to put as many obstacles in the way as possible. He is now trying to halt financial settlement as he wants me and the children out of the house. He lives away all week and comes here Fri - Mon to do washing and use all the facilities in the house but refuses to pay. He wont attend mediation anymore and I am just at my wits end. He has threatened, verbally abused and mentally drained myself and our two children (14 and 11) who are just as frustrated and fed up with all of this as I am. My original solicitor messed up so much that it resulted in me not being able to gain legal aid and I am now without any legal representation, hence his behaviour no dooubt! If anyone is in a similar situation, would be good to talk! He also has a court order against him preventing any further abuse, however, he attacked our eldes two weeks ago and it''s being investigated (albeit with the pace of a tortoise) and he is still here in the house at weekends, making the atmosphere unbearable! Anyway, hi to everyone and hope that you aren''t having as much hassle as me!! :(

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29 Jun 12 #339926 by NoWhereToTurnl
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Hi and welcome to wiki KazzyG,

You will find lots of support on here and after reading a few posts will realise we all go through the nightmare that is divorce and obstructive stbx.

If you can post a few more details, the community will be able to advise more constructively.

Age of you & stbx

Length of marriage and length of any cohabitation prior

Health of you, stbx & children

employment of you & stbx + salary

housing, rented/mortgaged, equity, value, outstanding mortgage.

assets ie endowments, savings


liabilities ie loans, credit cards

best wishes,

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