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Thanks Chris (and the others), I suppose that 'lonely' might not be the correct word to describe how I'm feeling as at least I've got a decent support network of friends and family to make sure I'm OK, a luxury which I realise that many other people posting on this site don't have.
My self worth has gone out the window though, and I can't help feeling 'disposable' and 'replaceable'. My STBX wife has booted me almost completely out of her life and is likely going to move straight in with the other bloke as soon as I've left for good next month, her family (mum and brother) who I always got on quite well with, have more or less completely frozen me out all of a sudden and won't even engage in conversation with me on the phone anymore if I happen to answer to them (I know that blood is thicker than water, but it still hurts when people can't even be civil to you...), and now I hear that next weekend my STBX wife, her new bloke, mum and brother are all getting together for a pre-Xmas get together/meal type affair, something that they do every year and that I've always done with them in the past.
It just makes me feel almost like I was never here and that nobody is even going to notice that I've gone. It's hard to believe that it was only 9 weeks ago that everything in my life seemed fine and I was actually looking forward to Xmas.
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