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22 Nov 07 #7394 by Shelia
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I am really impressed by all your stories and what lovely human beings you all are to open up your hearts on here in order to give others like me who are not in the aftermath yet some hope of a better future.

It heartens me after what I have been through that men do have finer feelings I am sure my stbx doesn't.

But I have found my smile :)and my sense of humour and have not cried for at least 10 days so I am getting there :), despite the fact I have an awful cold at the mo :(.

Best wishes to all


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22 Nov 07 #7398 by Camberwick green
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Camberwick green wrote:

I could have many times wished for the end and once I came close but my children were the ones who needed me and I eventually put things into perspective.

Its funny that people want to off themselves as part of this. What pushes them to take there own lives?

Obviously its different for everyone, for me I felt completely and utterly trapped in a loveless marriage for a whole host of reasons, but there is always a way out other than that!

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