It is very difficult to advise you on the wording of an order which I have not seen.
In general terms, it is always possible to apply to vary an order for SM on the grounds of changed circumstances under s31 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973.
This order may be for a term expiring on a fixed date, or it may be open ended and terminate on the occurrence of a specified event, for
example the re-marrage or death of the recipient.
Where an order is made for a fixed term, it is possible for the recipient to apply for the extension of the term. However an order
under s 28 may prohibit this, with the result that the SM ends on the date specified in the order.
Even if an SM order has a fixed date, there is nothing to stop the payer applying for a variation or even a discharge before the fixed date on other grounds - for example change of circumstances, or
the re-marriage or death of the recipient, either of which may end
the order.
What s 28 does is to prevent the recipient applying for an extension of the fixed term.
If, as seems to be the case with you, the SM ends on the occurrence of certain events, and that event occurs ( in my case it was the death of my ex wife ) you can just stop paying.
When she died, I didn't need to apply for a discharge, because the order itself specified that the order would end on her death. I just
enjoyed doing what I had waited 28 years to do, and handed in
a letter to the bank cancelling the standing order.
So if, for argument's sake, your ex is cohabiting, you can just stop paying the SM ( not the CM ). She will probably argue they are
not cohabiting and then it's for the Court to decide where the truth lies. If the Court finds against you, there will be a bill for arrears and probably costs.
But cohabitation of the mother does not end
child maintenance.
Your liability is calculated by reference to a statutory formula.
LMM