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Maintenance 3329 topics

Discuss child and spousal maintenance. How much child support are you entitled to? What determines whether you will receive/pay spousal maintenance?
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Spousal maintenance and settlements
Hi

Apologies if this has been answered - I have had a look at previous posts but I'm still unsure.

Me and my stbx split last year after 11 her ...
10 Feb 17, by smithy12345
Latest 10 Feb 17 by dukey
Replies:1
:570
Latest by dukey
10 Feb 17
Stopping periodical payments
I divorced in 2006 with 2 children - one living with their mum and the other at boarding school under me then moving to her mum when I left the Army.

O ...
18 Apr 13, by Carlton32
Latest 06 Feb 17 by jonathancj
Replies:25
:1631
Latest by jonathancj
06 Feb 17
Can I reduce Child Maintenance Figure?
Hi all,

My divorce was finalised in Jan 2015.

In the divorce paperwork I was to have our 2 daughters overnight every other Saturday. (At the t ...
05 Feb 17, by PaulYork
Latest 06 Feb 17 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:5
:388
Latest by WYSPECIAL
06 Feb 17
spousel maintainence
This is the second time tbat I have found the need to come to the forum simply because I cannot afford legal advice.
In short.
Mat.home worth £450k no ...
04 Feb 17, by Dotti6157
Latest 05 Feb 17 by dukey
Replies:2
:335
Latest by dukey
05 Feb 17
Divorce and Consent Order
I have bought the Divorce & Consent Order package.

I am waiting for the court to agree the grounds for divorce so that the Consent Order can be agr ...
03 Feb 17, by Helswatts
Replies:0
:287

High earner, what is fair?
Hello, maybe someone can offer some advice. Me and my stbx husband separated recently, he is 45 and I am 43. He is a very high earner £10,000 per month net and ...
01 Feb 17, by Lostintimeandspace
Replies:0
:394

1st post
Has anybody got advice on what to do if ex refuses to pay maintence . Total breakdown in communication with her as she will not pay anything and money is her Go ...
30 Jan 17, by fedupdad
Latest 31 Jan 17 by fedupdad
Replies:4
:447
Latest by fedupdad
31 Jan 17
Help! Without Prejudice Offer before FDR
So its like this...
Ex applied to vary SM. Second hearing in 3 weeks. Replies sent to questions and deficiencies sent. Totally didnt expect a Without Prejud ...
17 Jan 17, by Hepburn1
Latest 25 Jan 17 by Hepburn1
Replies:3
:451
Latest by Hepburn1
25 Jan 17
Maintenance/ REMO
Hi
Hope this is in the right place. I have applied to have my Consent Order enforced in Switzerland, and I am just waiting for the Swiss authorities to do t ...
15 Jan 17, by Mummyjill
Latest 16 Jan 17 by Mummyjill
Replies:4
:349
Latest by Mummyjill
16 Jan 17
Concise Statement of Issues/Chronology
HELP!!

I was divorced in March 2015 and my court order is fully executed in March 2017. However, my ex wife is now seking to amend the order.
I was ...
13 Jan 17, by Orion3
Latest 14 Jan 17 by Orion3
Replies:4
:574
Latest by Orion3
14 Jan 17
maintenance for the kids
My children are 16 and 18. One in education and the other having a gap year, practicing for piano degree, next September. Having regular piano lessons which I ...
10 Jan 17, by Daffodil123
Latest 11 Jan 17 by Daffodil123
Replies:3
:359
Latest by Daffodil123
11 Jan 17
Has anyone ACTUALLY successfully claimed SM?
My husband and I are just starting the separation route.

OH works long hours, earned £120,000 last year, on target the same this year, just under £10 ...
11 Jan 17, by LR35
Latest 11 Jan 17 by LR35
Replies:3
:384
Latest by LR35
11 Jan 17
Maintenance Pending Suite
Hi, Could any one give me any information on maintenance pending suite please.

I have been living off savings (which was a pay-out of pension money) a ...
07 Jan 17, by wikiliki
Latest 09 Jan 17 by jonathancj
Replies:5
:506
Latest by jonathancj
09 Jan 17
Significant Income Gap - kids over 18
Hello,

I have been married for 22 years and thinking about a divorce. He makes $360,000 a year and I make $21,000 working part time. I only went back t ...
03 Jan 17, by sea320
Replies:0
:305

spousal and child maintenance
I need some guidance as I am without legal advice, thanks in advance.



I need to know if it usual if you come to a financial agreement between ...
21 Dec 16, by telpel
Latest 22 Dec 16 by LittleMrMike
Replies:2
:398
Latest by LittleMrMike
22 Dec 16
Enforcing a Court Order
Joining a long line of divorcees whose exes have lost interest in paying child or spousal maintenance. Mine mostly ignores requests altogether, occasionally ma ...
25 Nov 16, by elizadoolittle
Latest 02 Dec 16 by crimsonlake
Replies:12
:971
Latest by crimsonlake
02 Dec 16
Nominal Order and and Order for sale of property
Good afternoon - I have 2 specific questions which I hope someone can help me with.

Firstly, to give some background - I am going through Financial Pro ...
01 Dec 16, by RonnieW
Latest 02 Dec 16 by dukey
Replies:1
:367
Latest by dukey
02 Dec 16
Spousal maintenance
Has anyone been successful in stopping Spousal Maintenance after paying it for many years??

The agreement is ongoing unless she cohabits, we've been pa ...
30 Nov 16, by Lisa36
Latest 01 Dec 16 by Lisa36
Replies:4
:490
Latest by Lisa36
01 Dec 16
Representing myself against a Variation Order
Hi, Im new to this site and am hoping there is someone out there who might be able to give me some advise. Ive been to the First Appointment following my Ex app ...
30 Nov 16, by Hornet1
Replies:0
:325

Living in USA - paying maintenance in UK: tax?
I''m due to start paying maintenance to my wife in the UK once we are divorced but wanted to understand whether she would be taxed on the payments in the UK. Th ...
20 Oct 12, by NYLondoner
Latest 28 Nov 16 by ukcalifornian
Replies:7
:1061
Latest by ukcalifornian
28 Nov 16
Financial maintenance for divorcing couple
Hi..can anyone help I am considering a seperation possibly a divorce..I have made up my mind to leave but as I will have no income apart from 50 percent of my h ...
10 Nov 16, by Prettygirl
Latest 10 Nov 16 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
:309
Latest by LittleMrMike
10 Nov 16
Threats of action by ex
Hi - can anyone offer any advice on this - after a nasty 3 and a half year divorce , I've finally reached settlement and have an order in place . As part of the ...
02 Nov 16, by bobbyjo
Latest 02 Nov 16 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
:414
Latest by LittleMrMike
02 Nov 16
Spousal & Child Maintenance - Help
Hi

Please could someone give some guidance. My ex husband is/was a high earner. He has recently stated that he is no longer earning an income and is ...
12 Oct 16, by Lara321
Latest 12 Oct 16 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:3
:342
Latest by WYSPECIAL
12 Oct 16
Maintenance and tax credits help please.....
Currently trying to come to a financial settlement with my ex. He has asked for my yearly earnings for the past two years( im self employed earning around £10, ...
06 Oct 16, by whattodonow
Latest 08 Oct 16 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:11
:879
Latest by WYSPECIAL
08 Oct 16
Payments from settlement for kids
kids are 11 and 12.

she says she wants money from any settlement as "well your never going to work again". I said I would make payments as pe ...
02 Oct 16, by DannyDuck
Latest 02 Oct 16 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:4
:353
Latest by WYSPECIAL
02 Oct 16
Varying Spousal maintenance
I am 56 and my ex wife is 55. We were married for just over 25 years and have been divorced for 7. We have 2 adult children, ages 28 and 25. I pay spousa ...
26 Sep 16, by Js210
Latest 27 Sep 16 by Js210
Replies:2
:398
Latest by Js210
27 Sep 16
No maintenance again!
Hi so ex is conveniently not working and having sold our home he is sitting on a tidy sum. In court the judge told him directly not to forget his responsibiliti ...
02 Sep 16, by Lymm
Latest 24 Sep 16 by leedan
Replies:1
:502
Latest by leedan
24 Sep 16
Mediation agreed CM v CSA
Morning all
Briefly....child maintenance was agreed during mediation 4 years ago. A court order exists where my child remains resident permanently with me u ...
24 Sep 16, by Sausagebutty
Latest 24 Sep 16 by Sausagebutty
Replies:2
:340
Latest by Sausagebutty
24 Sep 16
Downward variation
Hello all
So a year after the divorce ex leaves his job ( he has own company and takes work contracts) and wants to apply to sca to cut child maint. He then ...
20 Sep 16, by leedan
Replies:0
:301

Nominal Spousal Maintenance Order
I'm trying to work out a financial agreement with my X husband. I've been advised that the agreement we have come to looks fair on the face of it doesn't take i ...
12 Sep 16, by heartbroken3
Replies:0
:439

consent order wording?
need some advice on my consent order.
My daughter now aged 18, is off to university. Might end up as several questions..
She will be living away from ho ...
29 Aug 16, by mart1968
Latest 30 Aug 16 by mart1968
Replies:3
:356
Latest by mart1968
30 Aug 16
lump sum
Sorry, this doesnt really fit under "maintenance". I have googled a bit. Does anyone mind telling me please what is the Lump sum of Capital, suppose ...
24 Aug 16, by b11
Latest 24 Aug 16 by Bubblegum11
Replies:3
:407
Latest by Bubblegum11
24 Aug 16
Enforcement - Non payment of Spousal Maintenance
I have a court hearing as my ex-husband has reduced my Global Maintenance by hundreds every month.

This is less than 12 months after the consent order ...
16 Aug 16, by NiamhL
Latest 17 Aug 16 by tinkerbell1606
Replies:1
:352
Latest by tinkerbell1606
17 Aug 16
Spousal maintenance
Hello

I'm new to to all of this! Please could someone advise is spousal maintenance based on just the length of marriage or do the courts take into con ...
09 Aug 16, by Afy49
Latest 09 Aug 16 by Luna Shadow
Replies:3
:365
Latest by Luna Shadow
09 Aug 16
Clean break
Hello. Just going to start the divorce process. Have read that clean breaks are a good idea but confused re this and spousal maintenance. My current parter is ...
29 Jul 16, by happy080
Latest 30 Jul 16 by happy080
Replies:3
:444
Latest by happy080
30 Jul 16
Help ! Form E2 is pointless, can anyone advise?
Hi

I'm hoping you can give me some advice on the process and what to do. Has anyone experienced Form E2 ?

I'm varying the Spousal Maintenance ...
18 Jul 16, by coulsonmark
Replies:0
:464

Calculating spousal maintenance - help please!
Hi

Looking for a steer on spousal maintenance.

I am in the process of getting divorced after a 14 year marriage.

We have two children ...
14 Jul 16, by xn665221
Latest 14 Jul 16 by hadenoughnow
Replies:5
:461
Latest by hadenoughnow
14 Jul 16
clean break and/ or maintenance
I originaly decided that i would try for a clean break from my STBX,as i thought this would be for the best..quiet life..move on quicker etc.
I was not goin ...
24 May 16, by narcissist...free
Latest 14 Jul 16 by xn665221
Replies:2
:427
Latest by xn665221
14 Jul 16
Maintanace variation.
Hi My name is ram, need some advice. I am paying spousal maintenance and due to changes in my circumstances after communicating with my ex wife mutually agreed ...
12 Jul 16, by july16
Latest 12 Jul 16 by Lostboy67
Replies:1
:322
Latest by Lostboy67
12 Jul 16
Downward variation - request to adjourn
Hi all,

I have recently lost my job and therefore I have submitted Form A to request a variation downwards of child maintenance.

The hearing i ...
07 Jul 16, by nicmig1975
Latest 08 Jul 16 by nicmig1975
Replies:1
:321
Latest by nicmig1975
08 Jul 16

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