I've learnt a lot from this site and am now plucking up courage to take action and hope to get some advice and share outcomes so others can can learn from my experience so here goes.
W 56yrs. H 62yrs.Length of marriage 25 yrs.plus 2yrs. cohabitation. Children all independent.
FMH worth 250,000 no mortgage.
W.
CETV 203,051.38 (NHS final salary)
H. CETV 1,099,000.00 (Final Salary Pension in payment).
W.Monthly salary Gross 3059.52 Net 2146.96
H.Monthly pension Gross 3705 Net 3031
Seperated Feb. 2008. H left to live with OW
44yrs no. further contact with her family. Did not work for 1yr. Now works part-time. ? could work full time.
H. able to retire @ 55yrs (2002)Private Hospital Final Salary Scheme (mental health officer status). Chooses not to work since.
H. arguing that he completed his pension contributions and was fully paid up in 1996. I am therefore only then entitled to a share of contributions from 1982 (cohabiting) to 1996. I have increased my hours to full time in a physically and emotionally demanding job and wish to retire @ 60 (state pension @64). On divorce I give up entitlement to 28,000 PA widows pension.
His pension is currently more than my full time salary but a suggestion has been made at initial consultation that as his is income I may not be able to improve my pension with a
pension share.
I had hoped for an 50/50 split with the house (he will need to purchase as currently renting) and some improvement in my pension but no idea whether I have a case. I really want a
Clean Break. We both have about 60,000 in savings so I can go down the legal route to final hearing if necessary but is anybody able to give me an idea if I am likely to benefit longer term. Needless to say he doesn't want his pension touched.