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pension share would only work IF both of you can be adequately housed from the available equity.
It is not likely that you would have a greater share of the equity AND pretty much 50% share of the available pension pot.
The offer you have represents some 78% of the available equity. he would retain 90% of the pension pot. How valuable the pension is will depend on what kind it is ...
But it is comparing apples and pears. You need something to live in - and something to live on - both now and in retirement.
The options are:
offset pension against equity. You get less/no pension share in return for all or most of the equity in the house. Eventually you sell and use the money to fund retirement.
Split equity and share pension - exact proportion to be determined and would depend on your housig need - which at present is for a 2 bed place and will be for the foreseeable future especially if your 16 year old continues on to Higher Education. Remember pension shares are done on
CETV and how well they work out for you depends very much on how the sharing happens - whether it can be in the same scheme or if you have to transfer money out. The "true" value - especially if it is a Final Salary scheme - may be very much greater than the CETV (2x in my case). That will be reflected in the amount of pension the scheme pays but not the CETV - which is where having to transfer cash out gets trikcy as you get a lot less in real terms do theoretically would need a greater "share" to equalise income.
However the fact that he is on the point of retirement does make a difference.
In our case (12 year age difference, ex on point of retirement) the judge took his lump sum (25% tax free from the pension pot) and added it to the assets pot to be divided. The residue was counted as income and he retained all of it (barring the very small amount of CM he eventually had to pay). There are lots of ways to look at how that worked in percentage terms.
It was roughly 80% of house to me, 80% of pension to him (going by CETV alone). However in real terms it meant I got roughly 60% of the main cash assets. He got 40%. I kept my pension while he got his - which, because it is a final salary, index linked one, actually pays out 3x what mine will.
But at the end of the day I needed to stay in the house because of the children ... and they were my priority.
I think what you need to know is what the pension benefits are: What is the lump sum that he is due? What is the residual annual pension? This may help you find a different way to divide up the assets that works for you both.
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