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27 Jan 08 #12098 by doodles
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hi all, please can anybody tell me if my ex 2b can hide the keys to my matrimonial home and put key in fromt door when out so as to prevent me from getting in. my post still goes there and a lot of my belongings and my 12 yr olds are still there. he has moved his gfriend and her child in, who has keys and can come and go as she pleases yet i cant get in.he works away and im afraid the estate agents wont be able to gain access should i have any viewings. hepl please !!!!!::angry:the nisi was in court last week and finances now have to be sorted

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28 Jan 08 #12112 by TMax
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Did he just throw you out of the MH or wlk out, He is not supposed to lock you out you can gain access if you wish as along as you let him know when you are arriving to collect things and couse no damage. Check with these first they will be able to tell you very quickly what can be done. phone number is on the site www.womensaid.org.uk/

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28 Jan 08 #12179 by doodles
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i left in the end because he had his girlfriend there sleeping wenever i wasnt there, like nightshifts.my solicitor has told me i can break in in i so wish and he cannot do anything.

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28 Jan 08 #12184 by puffafish
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As long as your name is on the mortgage/rentbook, he cannot stop you from accessing your own house. You can break in as long as you call the police first so that they can attend as you do it.

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29 Jan 08 #12237 by doodles
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i have been told i can break in and the police will assist, however as im a nurse being involved with the police is a no go area for me.

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29 Jan 08 #12255 by Mush
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hi doodles.. your sol had given you the best advice. you can break in and its up to you whether you call the police to attend or not. If you don't want them to attend with you then get an independent party to withness what your doing/taking etc then there will be no blame later if his new girls diamond earings have gone missing etc. ;)i take it you will have been told as well that you have to make good any damage caused during breaking in.

As for you being a nurse and the Police a no go area...... I wouldn't worry. I would ring the local station or what ever and make them aware of your concerns and ask for someone to attend in plain clothes/car and if they are nice police they will...

Hope this helps Mush :)

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29 Jan 08 #12263 by Tinny
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Doodles, get your post redirected too especially if you are worried about it being opened or not passed on.

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