2 weeks ago stbx and I agreed verbally on finances that we were both happy with. He asked for time to run it through with his solicitor before I put the offer in writing.
2.5 weeks later I believe he has finally had the chat with his solicitor (after numerous emails and failed phone appointments that she apparently didn’t keep). She is apparently going to email me today/tomorrow – I take this to be bad news as if not believe he would have just told me its agreed.
Today I have emailed her expressing a concern at the delay(I wanted to put something in writing stating that I have been waiting on him).
He is fully aware that from tomorrow I am out of the country for a week, so will be unable to do anything on this.
I am very concerned as we have sold our
FMH (in his name, but I have interest registered) and purchasers want to be in around 6weeks.
I am going to start being pressured into releasing the interest on the property despite having no financial agreement signed.
Stbx said at one point he would give me 50% of the equity to get myself sorted whilst we argue the rest so that I am able to rehouse myself (rent). If the solicitor was to hold all the money i could not afford to rent somewhere.
Our verbal agreement he was happy with was 60% (as I have our child) and then another 10% instead of SM and his pension to make it a
Clean Break.
I don’t want to agree to a partial settlement as don’t want to get caught out with it being enough for my (and my sons) needs and that I have accepted it, so therefore don’t actually need anymore.
Can someone please tell me what would happen if I refuse to release my interest in property, therefore either delaying or preventing sale of our house going through (which believe you me is absolutely NOT what I want to do).
All I can think of is that he stops paying mortgage to purposely get it repossessed? What else could he do?
How would court view I have prevented this sale even though I can show I have given a reasonable offer weeks ago which would have prevented this situation?
Does anyone have any better ideas at ways around this, or do I just continue to call his bluff so he doesn’t think he can offer me a silly amount and I will be forced to take it?
Please help…….
Thanks
Miss