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26 Aug 12 #351968 by Margot123
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Hi Taff,

Coming in late in post but glad to hear that firstly you have slept well :)and indeed there probably be more sleepless ones and week ends can also be an issue.

But most importantly you are communicating with your husband. Whatever the future holds indeed, it is the most important thing. Your children might be older but they will be affected none the less...and maybe more than if they were little (little kids adapt easily).

Whatever you decide to do, good luck and do whatever feels right in your heart and guts...not what you think is expected or what people think you should do.

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26 Aug 12 #351983 by taff45
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Hi Catherine

Very wise words, thank you. I can definitely relate to doing whats right for you not what people say you should do. This has been something I have tried to do through out all this. I think everyones journey is different and it`s important to be true to yourself.

For me things have just taken a new turn. Moving out has made him see a lot of things clearly and he is now in a complete mess and having a breakdown realising what he`s done. It will still be a long and difficult journey - I am not kidding myself. But at least we can face the situation for what it is now with honesty and clarity on both sides. There is a long way to go and I no longer know if he is the man for me. But by learning from the past hopefully we can move forward in a better direction be it together or alone.

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