Occupation order- Ex trying to push house sale through

Hi,

I live in the FMH, she's in a rented flat. The house went on the market a while ago and had an offer accepted and I've also had an offer accepted on another house. Currently trying to reach financial settlement but she is acting irrational and unreasonable in her demands. And as it stands she won't release the money from the sale until we reach financial settlement. And i won't be able to move to the house i've found.

She knows I don't intend to move unless I can move to my house. But trying to get me to say that in writing now. Feels like she's going to apply for an occupation order.

We have 50/50 custody of kids. They've been through enough without having to move. And I am seriously concrened with the mental impact living in a flat will have on me. Equally she is living in a flat and having the same mental issues. And it's all impacting the kids.

Can she apply for any sort of court order to get me out the house before we reach finacial settlement?
Can I just remain in the house until we reach financial settlement?
Is it possible she can apply/will get an occupation order?
How long does that take?
Can I appeal if she does?
Can I get a mesher order even though i could just rent a flat somewhere?

My solicitor has said the courts wouldn't look on me favourably if i let the sale fall through. Not really sure what tha means in practice.

Is there a court order that the house be sold?

If not then you are free to refuse to sell.

There isn’t and don’t know how she could get one or if she can before we reach financial settlement?