LONG OVERDUE UPDATE

It''s good to hear it when someone makes it through this unwanted journey, great news done. although early days for me has given me the inclination to think about my future.

Hi! Action your post also helped with my spirits 3 years so far 5 months to sell house as ex would not agree a price.Friday it was sold now looking for a house but like you going from large 6 bedroom to a new 4 bed with small garden,i am feeling nothing but guilt for the children and worries of money but like you living expenses for this large house eat away at any money I have.

Thanks for the recent messages - good to see that posts are still read and are useful long after they''ve been read.
Good luck with your house move Sim. I was lucky in that my boys are grown up. You must not feel guilty for the children. You are, I''m sure, doing your very best for them.
Even though my house is much smaller than my old one, I just don''t feel compromised with space and ''grandeur'' at all. I love it, and my freedom, more and more every day.