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26 Nov 14 #450162 by Suttonday
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I Read ur post PRAYING I can feel the same way soon .. He broke me.. The OW broke me.. It''s been 10 months and altho im not a sobbing heap anymore he''s still in my mind 24/7.. Well up to this weekend anyway.. Something snapped this weekend ... My elastic band of patience I presume

Can''t wait to write ur post myself & listen to a song without every word hurting every part of me..

Can''t wait for him to just be someone I knew too... X

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03 Dec 14 #450748 by stemginger
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Patsy, just read this belatedly. It is an oscar speech - what a wonderful summary of where you are at. This really does happen, when you have withdrawn all your attachments, they are just someone you used to know (quote Marshy).
It was lovely reading it your piece. I''m not there yet, working through hatred at the moment but know it''s been stirred up through having to listen to his lies, hyperbole at our final hearing.
I love how your son put it - the I-phone/ Nokia thing. Very good.

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03 Dec 14 #450751 by Clawed
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I''m so glad this popped up, just what I need to read to remind me that this emotional rollercoaster won''t go on for ever.

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This is great and uplifting to read. I'm at the beginning of this long scary painful journey....you give me hope x

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