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Dear [ex’s name]
I am writing to you to ask that we agree and put an agreement in place for arrangements for how [children’s names] will share their time with both of us.
I have drafted a parenting plan, setting out what I think would work best for [children’s names] and attach it to this email/letter.
If there is anything you would like to discuss, or any amendments that you would like to make, then please let me know what they are. I am willing to listen to your proposals, and if necessary, attend mediation so we can come to an agreement. If you are happy with the arrangements, I have put in the parenting plan then I would like to put them into practice as soon as possible.
I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this and am hopeful we can agree arrangements between ourselves.
Yours sincerely
[your name]
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