Not for the first time my wife said she does not trust me. This time she made be stand about 2 meters away while when checked her emails "because I cannot trust you". A bit much from...

3am so I must be taking a kicking again, no sleep tonight. Two years on from last blog and life just gets harder and harder, culminating in the last couple of weeks of being abused...

Almost 2 years since I last wrote. Still surviving it. Finally packed up family papers relating to the ex and our children and put them into storage. ...

When I first split up with my stbx I was still (barely) in my 30s. I just assumed that I would meet someone else and would have a new relationship at some stage. I was in no hurry as...

A painful divorce / separation can unfortunately leave us in a constant state of sensory deprivation. I know I was unable to feel any sense of joy or take any interest in the passing of the Seasons. If the...

So it appears my dressing gown is the only item of clothing I have laundered in two weeks... leggings are my go to and if STBX and OW saw me I would surely shrivel up and die.. ...

i was just watching a video of a friends, friends wedding day.  A young couple, obviously in love on their happy day.  Every detail perfect they looked so happy.  And I thought I don't think I can ever do that...

Without doubt one of the hardest things associated with separation & divorce is the shock of finding oneself alone for long periods of time. Many of us typically experience an abrupt change from constant connection with our partners and...

  I'd love to be able to write a nice piece about how my life is so much better now, years after the fall out from my ex leaving me with all that entailed for my 2 young...

I thought I would write about where I am now in my life. I have been looking back at my old entries, and I must say that there is life after divorce! For me it's 5 year's since...