After going through 4 years of hell trying to sort out my divorce and to get my ex husband out of my life he is still trying his best to destroy me. I feel I need to write this blog to help me cope with it. I have no one to talk to my new partner is sick of it all , he does listen but I no longer want him to be burdened with it anymore has we have both suffered enough with all the things my ex has tried to do to us .
After a marriage lasting almost 20 years I decided to call it a day. I had stuck it all that time for the sake of the children but I knew that my marriage had really ended after about 10 years. I no longer loved him and I was slowly beginning to hate him. I was only 17 when I met him and he was much older and already going through a divorce from his first wife. He had 2 children a boy 13 and a girl 7. The boy lived with him and he had contact with his daughter once a week. My ex was a heavy drinker and gambler which atfirst I didn't see it only became apparent much later after we got married. I was very young and a lot of things went straight over my head at the time . I took on his son and also his daughter as he got custody of her after about a year.