Today would have been my 21st Wedding Anniversary, no gloom here as I've renamed it my celebration day...celebration of my two beautiful Sons who have shown me this week since finding out on Sunday that their Dad has a new family to go too, that I have a lot to celebrate. Ok stbx is a nasty , cheating liar but my Sons are a credit to me, two young men who since Sunday have protectecd me loved me and looked out for me. So together we are strong , positive and moving forward even though we've had the stuffing knocked out of us. I know the future weeks, months are going to be hard, but we as a unit are positive and strong. Thanks to all here on wiki I now feel strong and able to continue , to look forward and support my two Sons, your support, help and encouragment has helped me so much, thank you all...what a great site !