I have been split from my husband for 3 years. We still have not reached a finashal settlement. This has allowed me to save money post divorce as I work pt get tax credits & recive dvla for my son. My ex wants 50/ 50 split even though im the main carer. So he wants 30k 2 buy him out of the house he will not budge. He wants 2 see all my saving over last 3 years? He is self employed & has a cash buisness=(. I have offered 22k. Can anyone give advise; should I got to court &-ask for an uneaven split due 2 burden of child care or just pay up? As we are only arguing about 8k but that is a lot of money for me & I would still have a substantial mortgage??? Any advise pointers welcome.