[quote]You have to take care of yourself first. Before befriending others, you have to be your own friend. Before correcting others, you have to correct yourself. Before making others happy, you have to make yourself happy. ItÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s not called selfishness, itÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s called personal development. Once you balance yourself, only then can you balance the world around you. [/quote]
This was my biggest mistake in my marriage and I am finding it is so common. I totally lost myself in my marriage and I am just starting to reclaim that. This was 100% my fault and I will never let that happen again!