what did you do to get a life

sheerwater where did you find your buddist monk from?

falk baby what a sweet wonderful post got up this am and the arthritis that hasn't bothered me for a few years has returned with avengence am in so much pain really don't know how to keep positive.

what kind of an ex2b who went off with a rich woman won't sign an authority to put the mortgage on interest only so that i can pay the whole thing and keep a roof over my child's head.he is trying so hard to get the building society to reposess against all logic as there is negative equity.but thats wghat he is doing.keeping it on repayment refusing to contribute to it,arrears accruing month by month,and bs to reposess in a few weeks time,leaving us homeless.how can a father do that to his child?
i believe i am being punished for being a bad person.I can't see any other conclusion.

Jelly, not like you, you're a strong person and you won't let him beat you in this. I'm sorry about the arthritis pain, it must be the weather or you're run down. Try and work through it and take each day as it comes. I don't understand these people who can destroy lives like this, there ought to be a law against it, but we have to keep going you know we do.

Chin up, another day to get through. Please be strong.

aww fanx lovey....think i better get child up ,pack up sanis etc.

Ahhh Jelly (((((((((hug))))))))
Seems some days are just s...t and your having one of those. I'm sure tomorrow will be better. Take something for the arthritis or see your GP you don't need that pain amongst all the other pain you have.
Great post from Faux. I don't think I've seen anxiety explained like that and the adrenalin rush. I think I must like that bit because every time things start to settle I do something else to frighten myself. What's that all about?
Thinking of you Jelly xxx

To jueely4toes.
I had my fortune told ny a buddist monk in Thailand. It was at a temple and having been there it was one of the most peacefull places I have ever been. Sceptical , mydaughter had her fortune told. She liked some of the points but didnt like the others. All done with tarrot cards. A couple of days later I relented and had mine told. He didnt know the questions as I could tell him or not so I kept some to myself. He didnt know my situation. Turning the cards was scarey as he interpreted them. Then I asked a question in my head and he turned over the devil and told me that my partner was the devil and was doing me no good and to move on. Then he turned over justice and said justice would come my way and I should not worry. Then he turned over the buddah card and told me I could not have had a better card. My daughter was astounded. Whether you want to believe or not it was a great comfort Taking it from a sceptical point he was probably spot on with what is happening/going to happen. So we will see.

sheerwater wrote:

To jueely4toes.
I had my fortune told ny a buddist monk in Thailand. It was at a temple and having been there it was one of the most peacefull places I have ever been. Sceptical , mydaughter had her fortune told. She liked some of the points but didnt like the others. All done with tarrot cards. A couple of days later I relented and had mine told. He didnt know the questions as I could tell him or not so I kept some to myself. He didnt know my situation. Turning the cards was scarey as he interpreted them. Then I asked a question in my head and he turned over the devil and told me that my partner was the devil and was doing me no good and to move on. Then he turned over justice and said justice would come my way and I should not worry. Then he turned over the buddah card and told me I could not have had a better card. My daughter was astounded. Whether you want to believe or not it was a great comfort Taking it from a sceptical point he was probably spot on with what is happening/going to happen. So we will see.

Thats interesting sheerwater. Bit like a medium. I went to see a medium april 2006 when i was at my lowest. I took my brothers book, my mums rosarie and my dads watch. They are all deceased. I didnt tell him anything but he told me what was going on in my life to a tee. He said my dad and brother were helping me. This gave me an amazing lift. I just sobbed and sobbed when i got home. My ex was away with her bf on a coach trip and i was on my own for a week. The medium told me that there relationship wouldnt last. But its been over 2 years now since I went to see the medium. But one thing he did say is that I would be happy within 2 years. He was nearly right. Its funny how these people can do these things?

PS: Thanks for yr kind words. I aint nothing special I am just a normal bloke. F

Somehow the buddist monk interpreted the cards. Same with your medium. Maybe others see the pattern of life better from observing others. Lets be honest. Everyone on here is roughly in the same boat. i.e. confused, hurt, trying to come to terms with the whole situation etc. Everyone on here is trying to make sense of it all and although at different stages will all come through it in one way or another and rebuild. We are all looking for that quick fix and there isnt one. You have to work through it. You seek answers. You find personal solutions. 13 months into my 2 years I am told that I am getting better. I dont think so but others see it.
New to this site it has helped me in many ways. Not always the answers I sought but it prepared me for options.
It would be interesting to see how many posters are still posting after say 1 year,2 years, 5 years when they have resolved their demons and moved on. In the meantime I like others take comfort in the fact that we are not alone and that our feelings and worries are shared by others. Thank you Wiki team.