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Financial order
Hi
I'm finally getting somewhere with my divorce and my application for my conditional order can be submitted in December
my ex has put the house on the ...
09 Nov 22, by Johnny5
Latest 25 Nov 22 by hadenoughnow
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Latest by hadenoughnow
25 Nov 22
Advice on Consent Order & Financial Issues
Hello,

Thank you in advance for any advice or information received. Apologies also for the lengthy post.

The
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Home Rights Notice
HI,

I wonder if anyone can help me.

My STBX left the matrimonial home Jan 2020 which I solely own. Until recently I've discovered he place ...
07 Nov 22, by Vic_M1980
Latest 08 Nov 22 by .Charles
Replies:1
:455
Latest by .Charles
08 Nov 22
D11
My ex filed for divorce over 2 years ago, I agreed, but she has now gone quiet, I was told by the court service to complete a D11 to make it absolute.

...
03 Nov 22, by gazzauk99
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Strick out
Hi,
My wife started divorce last year under old law for unreasonable behaviour. The divorce is listed as a defended cause as of now because i am defending i ...
02 Nov 22, by Kashi
Latest 03 Nov 22 by Kashi
Replies:3
:390
Latest by Kashi
03 Nov 22
Stuck- divorce strategy
Hello guys. I have been lost and stressed on trying to workout what’s the best strategy for my situation. Your advice and insight will be very appreciated.
01 Nov 22, by Cup of Tea
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Form E v Form E2
Good evening,

I have applied for to vary the court order after divorce for lots of reasons (i.e. financial abuse, family funds used outside of the fami ...
31 Oct 22, by marisaosborne1@googlemail.com
Latest 01 Nov 22 by .Charles
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:458
Latest by .Charles
01 Nov 22
D8 form questions
My STBX and I have agreed to divorce after 2 ½ yrs of marriage and 10 years cohabiting altogether. Living in England. This is amicable. We don't have children ...
30 Oct 22, by DivorceFAQs
Latest 31 Oct 22 by DivorceFAQs
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Latest by DivorceFAQs
31 Oct 22
Notification of form c
I have verbally been informed by my wife that 3 weeks ago she filed form A.

Unfortunately 3 weeks later I don't seem to have received any formal noti ...
14 Oct 22, by easyrider
Latest 30 Oct 22 by easyrider
Replies:1
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Latest by easyrider
30 Oct 22
Husband refusing to leave
In brief,, married abroad. Living in UK. Have 5 year old. Husband is on sex offenders list, also has a drinking issue. I want to divorce. Have started proceedin ...
24 Oct 22, by bigbird12
Latest 26 Oct 22 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
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Latest by rubytuesday
26 Oct 22
Notification of form c
I have verbally been informed by my wife that 3 weeks ago she filed form A.

Unfortunately 3 weeks later I don't seem to have received any formal notifi ...
14 Oct 22, by easyrider
Latest 15 Oct 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:408
Latest by hadenoughnow
15 Oct 22
Advice on fair settlement
After some advice please.
I accepted all equity (£305000) from family home. Needed to get out quickly due to the stress of living together.
Latest 07 Oct 22 by debs78derby
Replies:4
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Latest by debs78derby
07 Oct 22
Financial settlement advice
Hi everyone. I'm looking for some much needed advice regarding property. I am about to start divorce proceedings against my wife. We live apart, both in rented ...
06 Oct 22, by loves5153
Latest 07 Oct 22 by debs78derby
Replies:1
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Latest by debs78derby
07 Oct 22
D81 when to complete
We have agreed a financial settlement and can apply for the first decree in December.

I’d like to have the consent order ready to go, can I complete ...
06 Oct 22, by Hillns
Latest 06 Oct 22 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
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Latest by rubytuesday
06 Oct 22
I'm a mess :( Financial settlement help please...
Hey all,

So my husband walked out on me 2.6 years ago and we have now filed for divorce.
But I really need some advice about a financial settlement ...
14 Sep 22, by Travelchick
Latest 15 Sep 22 by Travelchick
Replies:2
:518
Latest by Travelchick
15 Sep 22
Fair financial settlement
After some advice please.
I accepted all equity (£305000) from family home. Needed to get out quickly due to the stress of living together. Decree Nisi h ...
14 Sep 22, by C48
Latest 15 Sep 22 by C48
Replies:2
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Latest by C48
15 Sep 22
Complicated
Afternoon everyone. My first time on here and first post.

I appreciate most divorces are complicated and hopefully my scenario isnt too out of the ordi ...
13 Sep 22, by HaydenWY
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Her re-training
About to go through a divorce. I earn more but not by much.
while we had a shared bank account, she retrained to a new career taking a two year part time co ...
10 Sep 22, by MPoker
Latest 11 Sep 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
11 Sep 22
Married abroad
Hi
I am married with my wife for 14 yeats and the marriage was done in India under Indian marriage laws. I want to file a divorce. Is this possible in UK as ...
08 Sep 22, by joydeepsaha
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D11
Hi,
could someone tell me where I send my completed (to the best of my knowledge) D11 form
TIA
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D84-application for conditional order
Hello everyone
I am doing application for conditional order, there are 2 applicants, however I HAVE DONE SOLE divorce application originally, so does my ...
07 Sep 22, by gal
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Help please
Hello

Please help me figure this out if you can.

Married just shy of 5 years. Have two children (4 and 2 years)
My wife has said she is mo ...
05 Sep 22, by jollyfrog
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Consent order
hello everyone
I apply for divorce, my husband agreed , I was waiting 40 weeks and I am gong to do form E ( for financial disclosure) however still do not u ...
31 Aug 22, by gal
Latest 04 Sep 22 by gal
Replies:2
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Latest by gal
04 Sep 22
Wife has initiated Divorce proceedings, but has she?
Hi everyone,

I need some simple advice please, questions at the bottom.

Quick background, My wife initiated divorce proceedings while I was ...
24 Aug 22, by StressedDad
Latest 26 Aug 22 by StressedDad
Replies:3
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Latest by StressedDad
26 Aug 22
Judge issues Order of Costs
Hi there, my divorce NISI was granted in February 2022, and the Judge issued an Order of Costs ordering my ex wife to pay ‘all of my divorce costs’ ie the ...
24 Aug 22, by spaceportuk
Latest 26 Aug 22 by spaceportuk
Replies:6
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Latest by spaceportuk
26 Aug 22
Ex wife says she does not understand and does not respond
Hopefully this is quite straightforward. My brother separated from his wife 7 years ago. He now has 2 small children with his new partner. He started the divorc ...
22 Aug 22, by alreid1612
Latest 22 Aug 22 by alreid1612
Replies:3
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Latest by alreid1612
22 Aug 22
pension sharing
Is it possible to use my share of a final salary pension to buy my ex partners share of the FMH?We are divorced and have a financial settlement. ...
16 Aug 22, by Reborn2020
Latest 20 Aug 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:4
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Latest by hadenoughnow
20 Aug 22
Online divorce
Hi , has anyone used an online divorce site , want to make sure I use a legit one , so recommendations would be welcome ty ...
12 Aug 22, by Smileylou
Latest 12 Aug 22 by wikivorce team
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Latest by wikivorce team
12 Aug 22
Divorce and selling the house
Hello,
General question just popped into my head - Should we get a divorce first or sell the house first?
...
03 Aug 22, by massarella
Latest 06 Aug 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
06 Aug 22
Rights to stay in marital home
Hi!
Does my ex-wife have any right to stay in our marital home until she finds/buys a home of her own?
Background:
We have:
Decree Absolute.
...
01 Aug 22, by Secret Whispers
Latest 03 Aug 22 by Secret Whispers
Replies:2
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Latest by Secret Whispers
03 Aug 22
Changing reason
Hi, i started my divorce last Nov before the new rules ( wish i had waited!) divorcing by 2 year seperation being the reason and having a complete nightmare get ...
21 Jul 22, by SberryM
Latest 23 Jul 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
23 Jul 22
Is CMS a more practical option?
I hear mixed reports regarding the CMS.

However, is it not the case that using the service, as apposed to signing the child maintenance fee into a Minu ...
21 Jul 22, by 1066harold
Latest 22 Jul 22 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
22 Jul 22
No Fault Divorce
Dear all,

Does anyone have any experience of the no fault divorce process which became law this April?

My wife originally applied for the di ...
18 Jul 22, by Thom5691
Latest 19 Jul 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
19 Jul 22
Financial Settlement under New No Fault Divorce Law
No Fault Divorce - Consent Order/Financial Agreement

Also in relation to the no fault divorce process is the consent order/financial agreement still se ...
18 Jul 22, by Thom5691
Latest 19 Jul 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
19 Jul 22
Negotiating terms of Draft Minute of Agreement
I have been forwarded a Draft Minute of Agreement by my partner's solicitor regarding our proposed divorce.

I'm unable to afford a solicitor of my own. ...
17 Jul 22, by 1066harold
Latest 18 Jul 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
18 Jul 22
Pension
I have just received my cleared financial settlement. How soon can I apply for my decree absolute and put the FMH on the market? In which order do I do this? I ...
08 Jul 22, by Reborn2020
Replies:0
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Already filed, awaiting response
Hello,
I filed my petition online and was notified March 14th that it was issued by post to the respondent. The process outlined 7 days for the court to get ...
04 Apr 22, by Boycott
Latest 06 Jul 22 by Boycott
Replies:12
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Latest by Boycott
06 Jul 22
student loans proving we have seperated
Hi i have moved out of the marital home 15 months ago and my son is off to university this autumn. My wife and kids have the home and i have a separate address. ...
02 Jul 22, by Long road ahead
Latest 02 Jul 22 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
02 Jul 22
Final hearing
Hi
need some advice as my friends are in the middle of an acrimonious and are poles apart and their final hearing looming

length of marriage 25 y ...
21 Jun 22, by Greengrassofhome
Replies:0
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EX NOT RESPONDING TO CLEAN BREAK
Hi Folks ex is not responding to clean break consent order . what should i do to get clean break order from the court without her consent .
which form i nee ...
17 Jun 22, by falconfalcon
Latest 17 Jun 22 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:539
Latest by rubytuesday
17 Jun 22

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