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Decree nisi/financial order
I am in the final stages of my divorce. The financial order which we agreed between us has been sent to the court.
I can apply for the decree nisi from 19th ...
30 Mar 23, by Hillns
Latest 01 Apr 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:346
Latest by hadenoughnow
01 Apr 23
clean break order
New to these words and terms and needed to understand this a little better

Completely separated 12 months after marriage, no joint property, each work ...
20 Mar 23, by Stee4n
Latest 25 Mar 23 by Stee4n
Replies:6
:1304
Latest by Stee4n
25 Mar 23
D11
Hi there,
I am really looking for a little help. I am struggling to know how to complete the D11 form to request that the courts allow me to use my husb ...
21 Mar 23, by Karenina
Latest 23 Mar 23 by Karenina
Replies:4
:373
Latest by Karenina
23 Mar 23
Remortgage
Hi, I’ve recently divorced from my husband I have two sons 10 & 12 from previous partner, I work part time, Im a single parent, I bought the house on my o ...
21 Mar 23, by Jill007
Latest 22 Mar 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:308
Latest by hadenoughnow
22 Mar 23
urgent advice needed
My husband decided to return to the family home in December after 2 years of separation having been involved with someone else prior to leaving and after leavin ...
19 Mar 23, by miss optimistic
Latest 19 Mar 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:335
Latest by hadenoughnow
19 Mar 23
Release from mortgage
I went to arbitration as the final hearing got cancelled.

the Arbitrator issued a draft award. He said W should remain in the FMH worth 900k (200k mort ...
05 Mar 23, by Ow337
Latest 18 Mar 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:350
Latest by hadenoughnow
18 Mar 23
House valuations
Spouse wants us to agree house valuations for FDR between us rather than update the estate agent’s ones used for Form E. I feel he’s over valuing. What are ...
10 Mar 23, by Elon_white_musk
Latest 13 Mar 23 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:388
Latest by WYSPECIAL
13 Mar 23
Critical illness cover paid of the mortgage
Hi, my husband and I are divorcing but my question is about the house we have. In 2018 I was diagnosed with breast cancer and so the critical illness insurance ...
08 Mar 23, by renatety
Latest 09 Mar 23 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:3
:425
Latest by WYSPECIAL
09 Mar 23
Financial Question
I have just applied for a divorce online. I have been separated from my ex for nearly four years and the marital home was split 50/50 when we moved out at tha ...
27 Feb 23, by HelpReq123
Latest 03 Mar 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:4
:467
Latest by hadenoughnow
03 Mar 23
CGT
Hi My application was made on 21st August 2021, decree Nisi was granted on 21 August 2022, decree absolute yet to be applied.We have property, as per our agreem ...
28 Feb 23, by japin
Latest 02 Mar 23 by .Charles
Replies:1
:426
Latest by .Charles
02 Mar 23
After applying for divorce
Hi,
I have applied and payed for the divorce online. Is there really nothing else I can do now for 20 weeks? !! ...
27 Feb 23, by massarella
Latest 02 Mar 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:575
Latest by hadenoughnow
02 Mar 23
Reconciliation
Having married a woman I sponsored on a Fiancee Visa, we divorced after 3 years and she returned to her country. I susequently discovered deliberate actions by ...
27 Feb 23, by Blue Turtle
Replies:0
:356

No Fault Divorce Final Order
My wife started the divorce process April last year under the new No Fault Divorce law.

We have both received the conditional order and my wife was a ...
20 Feb 23, by Thom5691
Latest 21 Feb 23 by Thom5691
Replies:2
:685
Latest by Thom5691
21 Feb 23
D11 Enforcing an Order
Hi
I'm looking at enforcing a financial order, using the D11. I'm not able to afford a solicitor, so completing it myself.
The financial order was sub ...
19 Feb 23, by KKT20
Replies:0
:661

How to complete a D11 form
Hi everyone,
I'm in need of support to help me complete a D11 form. I started the application earlier this year and my wife has confirmed she has received t ...
18 Feb 23, by loves5153
Replies:0
:462

Parental consent to accept a school place
Dear Parents

Seperated since 2020. We are in the middle of court proceeding for Child Arrangements but next Hearing is in a few months time. Child is c ...
12 Feb 23, by bettydidabooboo
Latest 15 Feb 23 by TRT
Replies:3
:351
Latest by TRT
15 Feb 23
Ancillary Relief
Hi everyone
I am doing my application Form A for ancillary relief , but unfortunatlly I can not understand , can I send by post ? when and how I will pa ...
26 Dec 22, by gal
Latest 12 Feb 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:489
Latest by hadenoughnow
12 Feb 23
Any Help Please
Hi guys, this is all so new to me and finding it all so tough on what decisions to make now, basically my wife of 6 years told me a few days ago she doesn't lov ...
08 Feb 23, by JTayside
Latest 09 Feb 23 by JTayside
Replies:3
:374
Latest by JTayside
09 Feb 23
How to - supplemental petition
Dear Wikivorce,

I have been asked by the court to put in a supplemental petition and trying to gather information around it. So from what I believe, ...
07 Feb 23, by LightWithin
Replies:0
:336

Ex husband wants to stay at the martial home
Sorry for long story.
I have been seperated from partner for 8 months now, he left the martial home and is staying in military accommodation. I have staying ...
07 Feb 23, by Forever rose
Replies:0
:372

Mortgage capacity nightmare
Just sent off Form E to ex and not expecting his to be completed but I am plodding on as LIP for the FDA in March 2023.
Currently preparing the documents ...
07 Feb 23, by elaine238
Replies:0
:341

Hes in Cuckoo land !!
Hi all,
I had to move out of the joint owned home in June 2021. He remained in the property whilst I had to rent. He has not paid anything towards our 2 tee ...
19 Jan 23, by elaine238
Latest 04 Feb 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:739
Latest by hadenoughnow
04 Feb 23
Court proceedings
Can’t reach an agreement with spouse, will I be informed of court proceedings? ...
05 Jan 23, by BillyB123
Latest 03 Feb 23 by BillyB123
Replies:3
:455
Latest by BillyB123
03 Feb 23
Form E not saving information AHHH !
Hi all,

Any tips or advice. I had completed Form E and saved onto my laptop to print and it has not saved. Just tried again and it seems that when I wr ...
25 Jan 23, by elaine238
Latest 25 Jan 23 by .Charles
Replies:1
:387
Latest by .Charles
25 Jan 23
Paid for application but not heard anything
Hi everyone
I completed and paid for my solo application to divorce my wife on 8th November 2022. I received an email from gov.uk saying the payment was suc ...
22 Jan 23, by loves5153
Latest 23 Jan 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:896
Latest by rubytuesday
23 Jan 23
Just separated & struggling financially
I am newly separated and trying to get my head around everything. My other half is pushing for the property to go on the market, and as I can not afford to buy ...
19 Jan 23, by Heart2
Latest 22 Jan 23 by Heart2
Replies:4
:410
Latest by Heart2
22 Jan 23
Application deadline for decree absolute
Hi, I and husband applied for divorce online early last year 2022, everything went smoothly and got to decree nisi by end of March. Now the deadline to apply fo ...
20 Jan 23, by justanotherclick
Latest 20 Jan 23 by justanotherclick
Replies:3
:645
Latest by justanotherclick
20 Jan 23
Hes in Cuckoo land !!
Hi all,
I had to move out of the joint owned home in June 2021. He remained in the property whilst I had to rent. He has not paid anything towards our 2 t ...
19 Jan 23, by elaine238
Replies:0
:360

FORM E
Hi, Please can someone tell me what happens or how to deal with the situation if x refuses to declare a very large guaranteed bonus on his Form E which he h ...
15 Jan 23, by 2bfreenow
Latest 18 Jan 23 by 2bfreenow
Replies:2
:365
Latest by 2bfreenow
18 Jan 23
Clean break after divorce ex disappeared
Hi, we divorced in 2019 after 2 years of marriage (no kids , no assets , no joint accounts). I'd like to do clean break , because I am putting small amount of m ...
18 Jan 23, by Benjie1989
Replies:0
:329

Solicitors fees
I live with ex, though we are getting divorced. He has stopped paying anything towards the children’s needs. He is funding his legal fees from what he used to ...
17 Jan 23, by Elon_white_musk
Latest 17 Jan 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:430
Latest by rubytuesday
17 Jan 23
LIP FDA
Hi,I am male and preparing as LIP for FDA in the uk in a few weeks time and have the following questions. I) what clothes should I wear to the FDA (what is acc ...
14 Jan 23, by easyrider
Replies:0
:357

WTF... really?
OK, I appreciate that what I'm going through isn't new, but it's new to me so reaching out for advice!
Just been to my first court hearing to agree on int ...
11 Jan 23, by Jingles1964
Latest 13 Jan 23 by Araxman
Replies:2
:557
Latest by Araxman
13 Jan 23
Dismissal of Divorce Petition
Good morning,

After 20 months of struggle, my wife has decided to ask the court for dismissal of her petition (old law) just 3 weeks before the hearing ...
20 Dec 22, by Kashi
Latest 08 Jan 23 by Kashi
Replies:4
:487
Latest by Kashi
08 Jan 23
Filing House Valuations with Court
Hi there,

Apologies, but I thought I would re-post as I haven't had a reply but it would be extremely useful if someone had an answer that could steer ...
06 Jan 23, by pinkelephant1
Latest 08 Jan 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:2
:308
Latest by hadenoughnow
08 Jan 23
Filing House Valuations with Court
Hi there,

I would be grateful if someone would confirm whether filing house valuations with court simply means me sending these together with all other ...
02 Jan 23, by pinkelephant1
Latest 08 Jan 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:288
Latest by hadenoughnow
08 Jan 23
Form E documents
I have exchanged Form E with my ex. He hasn’t included credit card statements although it is evident from his bank statements that he has a number of them. Is ...
02 Jan 23, by Elon_white_musk
Latest 05 Jan 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:702
Latest by hadenoughnow
05 Jan 23
House vs Pension
I am currently in the early stages of divorce (52 years old), children have grown up and moved out.
I earn £100k but have just 2 years left of contract, li ...
21 Dec 22, by TTasker
Latest 03 Jan 23 by TTasker
Replies:2
:708
Latest by TTasker
03 Jan 23
Form E No Response
Hi All, I previously separated from my ex. In order to separate from the marital home we agreed an amount via a consent form and I paid him a lump sum. He bough ...
15 Dec 22, by tobefree213
Latest 19 Dec 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:565
Latest by hadenoughnow
19 Dec 22
Financial order
Hi
I'm finally getting somewhere with my divorce and my application for my conditional order can be submitted in December
my ex has put the house on t ...
09 Nov 22, by Johnny5
Latest 25 Nov 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:509
Latest by hadenoughnow
25 Nov 22

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