I have posted my full financial details here previously.
I have now run out of money to pay my solicitor (spent £6,000)and no nearer a solution.
My only claim is upon his pension, as the
matrimonial home, car, savings etc were all split 50/50. There are no children involved.
At present he enjoys the whole pension accrued during (and to be fair some before our marriage). However, in return for a 50% share of the other matrimonial assets he promised me an ongoing 50% share of the pension.
He has reneged on this agreement.
As of today I have told my solicitor I cannot afford their services. Now I am on my own so to speak, my husband's solicitors have suddenly become more vocal.
My only desire is to split everything 50/50, which after a 22 year relationship (3 co habiting and 20 married) seems reasonable... well to me at least. As stated, we split all the assets 50/50. House, car, bank accounts, savings. However, to date he has walked with the pension, which he promised me 50% of in lieu of splitting the aforementioned assets.
Now that I am unable to pay for legal advice, his solicitor has suddenly taken advantage of this fact and has today quoted a case and suggested I look at it. H v H (1993) 2FLR? His solicitor seems to be quoting this as a case for only considering the actual years of marriage and excluding co habitation. This may be of interest to others?
However, I am unable to check the facts of this case and would be grateful for your input.What does this case state and are there any valid counter arguments?
So sorry to be long-winded, but can anyone help me. Please!!! I am now at the end of my tether. I am S@@t scared at having to now act in person, whilst he continues to have the resources to fund legal fees.
However, I must, somehow continue. But I know I will get nowhere. Why should justice be denied to those of us who don't have the money to fight for it? Why should I finally find the courage to walk away from an abusive (mentally and sexually )marriage of 22 years and receive nothing? Is it fair that he is left with the lions share of the income that we jointly accrued, whilst I live hand to mouth?
I know why. Because he has the money to fight it. and I do not
Sorry to rant, but as you can guess, I am very upset at the moment