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DIY Divorce 832 topics

Discussion on DIY divorce services as an alternative to using a solicitor. How much does it cost? How long does it take? What if we can't agree?
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Settlement agreement
Hi I need a little advice please, I have so far conducted a diy divorce and currently have a Decree Nisi agreement.
My other half has agreed that I am going ...
26 Mar 13, by Vat
Latest 27 Mar 13 by dukey
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Latest by dukey
27 Mar 13
Consent Order Online - Advice Sought
I have initiated financial proceedings on my STBX. I think that having seen what lays ahead for her/us, she is now more receptive to the idea of agreeing a con ...
27 Mar 13, by Sysyphus
Latest 27 Mar 13 by dukey
Replies:1
:333
Latest by dukey
27 Mar 13
Statement of Case
HI, I wondered if someone could help with the Statement of Case section of the D8 form, part 6. I have put together some words which fit out situation, but I''v ...
22 Mar 13, by BillyNee
Latest 22 Mar 13 by BillyNee
Replies:5
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Latest by BillyNee
22 Mar 13
how to proceed with no acknowledgement of service
I have started proceedings but my husband refuses to sign the papers, the court told me to go with deemed service. He lives in spain but i sent him the papers a ...
13 Mar 13, by pepelopez
Latest 13 Mar 13 by dukey
Replies:1
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Latest by dukey
13 Mar 13
DIY Will mid divorce
I don''t really want to spend money getting a will written until my divorce is full. I basically just want to leave everything I have to my kids. We had joint w ...
10 Mar 13, by musicforthemasses
Latest 11 Mar 13 by musicforthemasses
Replies:4
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Latest by musicforthemasses
11 Mar 13
Answers to questionnaire
I am the applicant and I have received my spouse''s questionnaire. I am ready to send my answers now, but do I also need to include a statement of truth? If so, ...
04 Mar 13, by PleaseLetMeGo2013
Latest 04 Mar 13 by PleaseLetMeGo2013
Replies:2
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Latest by PleaseLetMeGo2013
04 Mar 13
Aplication for Decree Rejected???
Hi all, this is my first post and i really really need some urgent help.

I thought I was ok and doing well with all this form filling and recently subm ...
23 Jan 13, by benjamin.hayes
Latest 02 Mar 13 by benjamin.hayes
Replies:2
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Latest by benjamin.hayes
02 Mar 13
D37 ARRIVED IN THE POST
Hi Guys

Looks like I''m done! Much to my shock D37 Decree Absolute arrived in the post yesterday morning. Decree Nisi was only issued 6-weeks and 4-day ...
02 Mar 13, by EGGBOX
Latest 02 Mar 13 by dukey
Replies:1
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Latest by dukey
02 Mar 13
D11 wording info re discontinuing proceedings
My local 5+yrs separation App for D-nisi has halted until I get 12yr old proceedings discontinued - I didn''t realise they still counted as live when I started ...
28 Feb 13, by Piscesnine
Latest 28 Feb 13 by Piscesnine
Replies:2
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Latest by Piscesnine
28 Feb 13
Judge`s query re: living together while separated
I am handling my own divorce Petition and applied for divorce under 2 years mutual separation in October.

I was hoping to be at Decree Nisi stage by no ...
21 Feb 13, by retep69
Latest 21 Feb 13 by retep69
Replies:8
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Latest by retep69
21 Feb 13
Self repping list of proceedures were to start ?
The last time I used a solicitor to start events and he didn''t open letters, I paid a bailiff to present them to him.
If I self rep is registered post good ...
12 Feb 13, by willow33
Replies:0
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First Appointment questionnaire
I am the respondent in the divorce, we have not been able to reach a financial agreement so I have applied for a Financial Order and we have a First Appointment ...
10 Feb 13, by PleaseLetMeGo2013
Latest 11 Feb 13 by NoWhereToTurnl
Replies:3
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Latest by NoWhereToTurnl
11 Feb 13
Court order is not being followed!!
Hi all,
A quick question, does anyone know if a judge can sign on behalf of my ex husband, I am going back to court as he is refusing to sign the deeds of p ...
09 Feb 13, by salski79
Latest 09 Feb 13 by confused 101
Replies:1
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Latest by confused 101
09 Feb 13
Wikivorce telephone line
Can anyone tell me if the telephone line can tell me if I can ask specific questions re stbx form e.

Or advise me what I can ask for in way of evidence ...
28 Jan 13, by butterfly crossing
Latest 05 Feb 13 by butterfly crossing
Replies:7
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Latest by butterfly crossing
05 Feb 13
D8 Form Part 7 Step Parent Help Needes
First of all I apologise if this has already been discussed but I couldn''t find anything in the search.

Long story short, my wife and I are divorcing ...
04 Feb 13, by elcowardo
Latest 04 Feb 13 by rubytuesday
Replies:3
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Latest by rubytuesday
04 Feb 13
Unreasonable behaviour?
Hi all,

I don''t know if I have posted in the correct forum but I''d like an idea if these are enough for grounds of divorce?

Does it matter t ...
28 Jan 13, by Reharding
Latest 28 Jan 13 by newleaf
Replies:1
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Latest by newleaf
28 Jan 13
Problems filling in petition:location of marriage
Hello, hope someone can help.
My ex and I are getting amicably divorced after 2+ of separation. We are not disagreeing over finances so have not appointed ...
19 Jan 13, by Mkat
Latest 28 Jan 13 by Mkat
Replies:1
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Latest by Mkat
28 Jan 13
DIY questions
I am the respondent in an uncontested amicable divorce.

We completed all the papers by ourself so far, with some (free) advice and lots of research
...
27 Jan 13, by planforfuture
Latest 27 Jan 13 by dukey
Replies:2
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Latest by dukey
27 Jan 13
amending the petition
Hi
Please can anyone help. I''ve started diy divorce proceedings based on 2 years separation. I thought stbx was in agreement but apparently not! Can I a ...
27 Jan 13, by viking107
Latest 27 Jan 13 by dukey
Replies:1
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Latest by dukey
27 Jan 13
No case reference number for D36
Hi Can anyone please help, I was granted a decree Nisi in 2009 and really want to finalise my divorce. Iv sent off the D36 to the court however I didnt have a c ...
26 Jan 13, by lifeinoz
Latest 27 Jan 13 by dukey
Replies:3
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Latest by dukey
27 Jan 13
Incomplete Acknowledgement of Service (Adultery)
I’ve received the Acknowledgement of Service forms D10(a) and D10(2) completed by the Respondent (my husband) and the Co-Respondent but one form is incomplete ...
23 Jan 13, by Winter2011
Latest 24 Jan 13 by WhiteRose
Replies:2
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Latest by WhiteRose
24 Jan 13
Make Sure You Send Correct Papers For Service
As a Process Server and having received many instructions from various clients over the years to serve Divorce Petitions I thought a little advice on what to se ...
22 Jan 13, by simonpinkney
Replies:0
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Part 3: Jurisdiction
Hi there,

I am at the beginning of the process and will be submitting a DIY divorce Petition - I found this site today and its a wonderful source of ad ...
20 Jan 13, by GTD
Replies:0
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Divorce petition sent to Far east
Hi

I am trying to help my partner who is originally from The Philippines get a divorce from her Ex (separated for over 20 years) so we may get married ...
13 Jan 13, by philpartner
Latest 13 Jan 13 by dukey
Replies:1
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Latest by dukey
13 Jan 13
Divorce
Appreciating this is not generally recommended but if I am divorcing under 5 years separation grounds:
A) can I do so without reaching agreement on children ...
04 Jan 13, by Julians
Latest 04 Jan 13 by dukey
Replies:1
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Latest by dukey
04 Jan 13
doing-it-myself court order
:blink:Hi,

first time on here and i''m not sure where to s ...
02 Jan 13, by bargain hunter
Latest 02 Jan 13 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
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Latest by LittleMrMike
02 Jan 13
How to get clean brake
I need a clean break concent order. What do I need to do if husband is not replying/ returning finacial statement and signed concent order? ...
17 Nov 12, by Lori321
Latest 29 Nov 12 by .Charles
Replies:9
:880
Latest by .Charles
29 Nov 12
What counts as legal advice
Hello,

My STBX and I have agreed upon how we wish to proceed with our divorce.

We''re attemtping to keep our costs down and will probably use ...
25 Nov 12, by koplegend
Latest 25 Nov 12 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
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Latest by rubytuesday
25 Nov 12
Divorce granted...
My wife has informed me that she has received the divorce Petition form the court, but isn''t going to sign because she is not happy with:

1. one of th ...
23 Nov 12, by CastleBlayneyMan
Latest 24 Nov 12 by CastleBlayneyMan
Replies:2
:369
Latest by CastleBlayneyMan
24 Nov 12
What if he doesn''t respond to divorce petition?
Hi,

My ex and I have been separated for 3.5 years.

He has verbally agreed that its time to divorce, and that we can do it on the basis of 2 y ...
22 Nov 12, by ashbaby
Latest 23 Nov 12 by .Charles
Replies:3
:476
Latest by .Charles
23 Nov 12
unresponded divorce petition
Hi

My ex and I have been separated for 3.5 years.

He has verbally agreed that its time to divorce, and that we can do it on the basis of 2 yea ...
23 Nov 12, by ashbaby
Latest 23 Nov 12 by ashbaby
Replies:6
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Latest by ashbaby
23 Nov 12
What is she entitled to?
My partner separated from his wife 12 years ago and she moved away from the area and bought a new house. He subsequently was made bankrupt and the matrimonal h ...
21 Nov 12, by rottweiller
Latest 22 Nov 12 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:3
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
22 Nov 12
D10 ARRIVED THIS MORNING - QUICK QUESTION!
Hi guys

D10 et al arrived in the post this morning. For me seems quite straight forward other than I have a question re: Q 7 Even if you do not inten ...
20 Nov 12, by EGGBOX
Latest 20 Nov 12 by dukey
Replies:1
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Latest by dukey
20 Nov 12
pre marital money
I was recently married and wife left after 10 weeks. she left and withdrew 70,000 dollars from a savings account that contained money saved by me long before we ...
10 Nov 12, by carcono
Replies:0
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Divorce after 5 years separation
Hi,

My partner has been separated from his wife for 5 1/2 yrs. In September he decided to apply for divorce on the grounds of 5 years separation. His w ...
06 Nov 12, by willows
Latest 07 Nov 12 by .Charles
Replies:1
:557
Latest by .Charles
07 Nov 12
divorce advice on form d80
On the form d80 - I am unsure what date to state on which the decision that the marriage was at an end, as I have not seen my husband for 20 years - he just lef ...
04 Nov 12, by ANN OKEEFE
Latest 04 Nov 12 by dukey
Replies:1
:43
Latest by dukey
04 Nov 12
D8 form part 10 court fee
Hi all

I ticked D8 form part 10 (2)
which make respondent pay the court fee.

I sent to form to court and court sent form back to me saying ...
03 Nov 12, by heny
Latest 03 Nov 12 by sulkypants
Replies:3
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Latest by sulkypants
03 Nov 12
Help pls with form D80E
I''m at the point of applying for a decree Nisi as the Petitioner and i''ve received letter from the court saying ....''district judge is not satisfied that the ...
30 Oct 12, by kinkeypinkey
Replies:0
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D8 form part 10. costs help
Hi all.

I am trying to claim costs from respendnet so i ticked the D8 form part 10 (2) costs box.

That''s all I need to do ?

I don''t ...
25 Oct 12, by heny
Latest 25 Oct 12 by .Charles
Replies:3
:451
Latest by .Charles
25 Oct 12
D8 part 6 wording help
Hi all.
Could you please help me out with D8 part 6
statement of case ?

"Respondent and Petitioner agreed to be separated after 4 year ...
25 Oct 12, by heny
Latest 25 Oct 12 by heny
Replies:2
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Latest by heny
25 Oct 12

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