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Discussion on DIY divorce services as an alternative to using a solicitor. How much does it cost? How long does it take? What if we can't agree?
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help - part 3 jurisdiction
filling this in what words do i use?
i used to live in england, now moved to scotland, ex still lives in england, and can i use an english court? ...
10 Dec 13, by Tony48
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Husband and his solicitor not responding
Stbx served by processor 2 weeks ago letter from his solicitor followed they have not responded to Petition court day to file for judge to pass without his sign ...
29 Oct 13, by driven40
Latest 30 Oct 13 by driven40
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Latest by driven40
30 Oct 13
Partner has not responded to petition for divorce
Hello

I have applied for a dissolution of my civil partnership on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour (I was assaulted many times and my partner was ...
09 Oct 13, by girluk
Latest 09 Oct 13 by girluk
Replies:6
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Latest by girluk
09 Oct 13
what happens now?
I have paid for online divorce, do I receive email or letter, haven''t had anything yet? ...
08 Oct 13, by lovingdogs
Latest 08 Oct 13 by rubytuesday
Replies:5
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Latest by rubytuesday
08 Oct 13
Consent Order & D81 advice
Hi,

My STBX and I have amicably agreed how we wish to separate our finances and don''t want to have this cost us a fortune in solicitors fees. Already ...
01 Oct 13, by 28102012
Latest 01 Oct 13 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
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Latest by LittleMrMike
01 Oct 13
Decree Nisi
Im trying to progress a DIY divorce, my ex is dragging her feet on a few issues though we have agreed on most things. I would like to obtain a decree Nisi so i ...
29 Sep 13, by ian54
Latest 29 Sep 13 by ian54
Replies:9
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Latest by ian54
29 Sep 13
unreasonable behaviour
Hi

i wondered if you could take a look at my UB reasons? I am trying to keep them "soft" so not to ruffle his feathers as i am doing ...
26 Sep 13, by driven40
Latest 28 Sep 13 by driven40
Replies:11
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Latest by driven40
28 Sep 13
Marital asset
Hi I am I correct in thinking that anything over £500 is classed as a marital asset? If so does this mean the £2000 yes two thousand pound road bike he has ...
28 Sep 13, by driven40
Latest 28 Sep 13 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
28 Sep 13
Form D8 section 4
Hi after having a meeting with a solicitor yesterday and her dropping the fact that it would cost me in the region of £25000 to get my husband out of my life I ...
26 Sep 13, by driven40
Latest 28 Sep 13 by sim5355
Replies:5
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Latest by sim5355
28 Sep 13
Petitioners address for service
Hi

if I am going to use a service to serve my STBX with the papers do I use this companies address or the home address of the STBX?

thanks ...
26 Sep 13, by driven40
Latest 26 Sep 13 by driven40
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Latest by driven40
26 Sep 13
What are the initial steps for filing divorce?
As one of my friends wants to file a divorce case, Can anyone please tell me what are the initial steps for filing divorce? ...
04 Sep 13, by jessicarobin
Latest 04 Sep 13 by WhiteRose
Replies:1
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Latest by WhiteRose
04 Sep 13
Unreasonable behaviour - thoughts please :)
This is what I have come up with - trying to be gentle enough not to cause an upset with the ex yet include enough to get me a divorce!! Can you let me know wha ...
18 Aug 13, by Ollymummy
Latest 19 Aug 13 by Ollymummy
Replies:2
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Latest by Ollymummy
19 Aug 13
Statement of Case for Adultery
I was wondering if anyone could give me some tips on writing a statment of case for adultery.

My ex husband left me for someone else after 8 months of ...
16 Aug 13, by CR1980
Latest 19 Aug 13 by CR1980
Replies:5
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Latest by CR1980
19 Aug 13
Post Court Baliff
Hi guys - haven''t been on here for a while but I am no further forward with my divorce...thinking of stepping in with a solicitor of some sort but I really don ...
31 Jul 13, by lulubabes81
Latest 13 Aug 13 by lulubabes81
Replies:2
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Latest by lulubabes81
13 Aug 13
Help unreasonable Behaviour wording
HI we are new to this site and just need a little help. My partner is filing for divorce on 2yrs separation but she wont sign, so We are in the process of amen ...
04 Aug 13, by claire2301
Latest 08 Aug 13 by claire2301
Replies:8
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Latest by claire2301
08 Aug 13
Unreasonable Behaviour - feedback on grounds?
Hi, I had posted this in my previous thread but as the subject probably isn''t right trying it here.

I have drafted the following unreasonable behaviou ...
02 Aug 13, by han123
Latest 06 Aug 13 by han123
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Latest by han123
06 Aug 13
Borrowing from family
I''m borrowing money from a family member to pay off my ex. The agreement is that they then ''own'' X% of the house, to be paid back when it''s sold, no deadlin ...
05 Aug 13, by alberta
Latest 05 Aug 13 by Gillian48
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Latest by Gillian48
05 Aug 13
form E
Hi
I have had to give up my solicitor as my legal aid has finished and I cannot afford to go to court and pay the fees. So that leaves me with filling in th ...
01 Aug 13, by Roselady
Latest 02 Aug 13 by TBagpuss
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Latest by TBagpuss
02 Aug 13
Part 3: Jurisdiction
Very simply - both my ex-partner and I are born and bred in England, and live here in separate homes. Neither of us live in another country or spend time there ...
12 Jul 13, by mrpike
Latest 12 Jul 13 by dukey
Replies:4
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Latest by dukey
12 Jul 13
2 year separation or unreasonable behaviour??
Hi,

I have drafted my Petition on unreasonable behaviour grounds and thought I had been quite light touch about it. However, I have shown it to my ex a ...
09 Jul 13, by Ctin
Latest 10 Jul 13 by Lostboy67
Replies:4
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Latest by Lostboy67
10 Jul 13
I wasn''t planning on DIY
Hi,

I am the respondent in a divorce. I had a solicitor acting for me but we''ve parted company, so I''ll be acting in person from now on.

I w ...
20 Jun 13, by orval
Latest 20 Jun 13 by orval
Replies:2
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Latest by orval
20 Jun 13
statement of case fine?
canot type more text in that field,will that be suffienct,any error please correct me
1)The respondent shows no affection towards the Petitioner and has had ...
19 Jun 13, by ashtonboy
Latest 19 Jun 13 by Gillian48
Replies:3
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Latest by Gillian48
19 Jun 13
Married in England, Divorce in Scotland?
Hi there.
My partner got married in England but hasn''t lived with her husband for over two years. She has wanted to divorce him for all this time but he ha ...
16 Jun 13, by Zero Gravitas
Latest 17 Jun 13 by Zero Gravitas
Replies:5
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Latest by Zero Gravitas
17 Jun 13
Divorce without one party having a solictor?
My wife an i are proceeding with divorce. I have not selected a divorce solicitor yet but i have one in mind.

My wife said that she does not have the ...
17 Jun 13, by tk1
Latest 17 Jun 13 by JN48
Replies:2
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Latest by JN48
17 Jun 13
To include in a separation agreement
My stbx and I have come to an agreement. I’m not 100% happy but it gets us moving forward and putting the FH on the market.

I am aware that a separat ...
22 May 13, by halflifedecay
Latest 13 Jun 13 by halflifedecay
Replies:8
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Latest by halflifedecay
13 Jun 13
2 years separation with agreement
My stbx and I agreed to use 2 years separation as the reason for divorce and we have just reached that landmark.
Should I ask my stbx to write a letter stat ...
10 Jun 13, by happydaysnow
Latest 10 Jun 13 by happydaysnow
Replies:2
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Latest by happydaysnow
10 Jun 13
Getting started with my divorce
My ex and I separated in May 2012 and I left the marital home.

Originally we were going to wait the two years but after a year of separation I''m ready ...
22 May 13, by Char2609
Latest 03 Jun 13 by Char2609
Replies:17
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Latest by Char2609
03 Jun 13
Help completing D8 Form Part 3 - Jurisdiction
Hello! I would be very grateful for some help completing Part 3 of the D8 form and can''t seem to get an answer anywhere else.

My question is this: M ...
27 May 13, by Peterson
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Whats the best online divorce company?
Has anybody got any recommendations for online diy divorce companies? Its a straightforward uncomplicated divorce so how long would it atke to all go through?
18 May 13, by TripleMummy1
Latest 18 May 13 by NoWhereToTurnl
Replies:1
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Latest by NoWhereToTurnl
18 May 13
Absolute - do we get reminded?
Respondent in divorce proceedings, Nisi was granted in January, no sign of my Ex having put in for the Absolute.

Calendar-wise, I''ve worked out that I ...
18 May 13, by SilverFir
Latest 18 May 13 by SilverFir
Replies:4
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Latest by SilverFir
18 May 13
Statement of information
Hiya,

My husband has petitioned for divorce and I have responded.

Have just received an email from his solicitor asking if I am completing a s ...
18 May 13, by bert1e1
Latest 18 May 13 by bert1e1
Replies:2
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Latest by bert1e1
18 May 13
Advice please
Hi I have just printed off the Statement of information for a consent order to fill in ready for the consent order(obviously) Can i apply for my divorce at the ...
07 May 13, by nicwin
Latest 07 May 13 by nicwin
Replies:3
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Latest by nicwin
07 May 13
Phrasing Statement of Case
Hoping to sort the divorce myself going direct to the court and was unsure as to how much I would need to go into depth with unreasonable behaviour? I have draf ...
01 May 13, by jb9827
Latest 01 May 13 by WhiteRose
Replies:3
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Latest by WhiteRose
01 May 13
Completing a D80B
Hopefully someone can help me! I am currently completing a D80B. I only received the D10 from the Respondant but should I have receieved anything else?
I fi ...
29 Apr 13, by loobylou83
Replies:0
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D8 question
I wonder if any of the lawyers on this site would be kind enough to cast an eye over my Part 6 UB box of my D8 form please? I just want to check it''s strong en ...
28 Apr 13, by riseandshine
Latest 29 Apr 13 by dukey
Replies:1
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Latest by dukey
29 Apr 13
D81 after the divorce
We''ve already divorced and the divorce was not in the UK(in a country where we''ve got married), but we are the UK residents(not citizens)
In order to reso ...
28 Apr 13, by Murka
Latest 28 Apr 13 by NoWhereToTurnl
Replies:1
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Latest by NoWhereToTurnl
28 Apr 13
advice please
H and i have Managed to agree money and the split of the house etc between us so i need advice on where do i go from here. Would like to get everything in writ ...
26 Apr 13, by nicwin
Latest 26 Apr 13 by nicwin
Replies:2
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Latest by nicwin
26 Apr 13
transfer deed
my partner is in the final stages of divorce from his wife and has been asked for a transfer deed. since the house is in his name solely not his wife''s, even t ...
16 Apr 13, by misspink
Latest 16 Apr 13 by dukey
Replies:2
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Latest by dukey
16 Apr 13
Free Guide to Self Repping by Bar Council
Hi all,

I have not seen this posted any where, sorry if its a duplicate but listening to the 06.30 news there were discussions about the changes in Leg ...
06 Apr 13, by NoWhereToTurnl
Latest 06 Apr 13 by perin123
Replies:2
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Latest by perin123
06 Apr 13
I''ve been counterpetitioned
Hi All, first time post for me as I need some advice quickly. I left my STBX after 14 years of domestic violence and abuse. I petitioned for divorce myself as I ...
27 Mar 13, by Sucee
Latest 27 Mar 13 by dukey
Replies:3
:696
Latest by dukey
27 Mar 13

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