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Final Order....advice please
Hi all,

Divorce has been granted a Conditional Order, with Final Order in November.
I am a Litigant in person as I cannot afford a solicitor.
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23 Sep 23, by Mrfortyfive
Latest 28 Sep 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
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Latest by hadenoughnow
28 Sep 23
ES1 & ES2 submission
I am the applicant but I am not represented. Ex is represented. Court papers state I must lodge ES1 & ES2. Ex's solicitors are asking to see sight of t ...
26 Sep 23, by Heart2
Replies:0
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DA - applied by respondent
I have so many questions and thank those that have answered my previous postings. Just another question .........

She applied for Decree Nisi which w ...
25 Sep 23, by fartypants
Replies:0
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Divorce Costs query
I realise that the divorce petition and financials are treated separately but unsure of the following: -

Re Order for costs supplementary to decree n ...
23 Sep 23, by dd1232
Latest 23 Sep 23 by dd1232
Replies:1
:431
Latest by dd1232
23 Sep 23
First hearing preparation
As a litigant in person with the first hearing in financial settlement coming up 6 November and financial documents due for exchange 2 October to respondent law ...
21 Sep 23, by Wxxx1
Latest 22 Sep 23 by Wxxx1
Replies:2
:500
Latest by Wxxx1
22 Sep 23
Court application procedure?
My ex wife and I have so far been unable to agree on a financial resolution, she has said repeatedly that she is going to take me to court but to date has not. ...
20 Sep 23, by rrobby12
Replies:0
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Form G
I am completing Form G and am not sure if I declare I will or will not be in the position to progress. I have been ready for months but the ex has not engaged. ...
13 Sep 23, by Heart2
Latest 18 Sep 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
18 Sep 23
Subpoena for Credit Card Statements
Hi, can somebody please help with this? My husband will not disclose his John Lewis credit card statements. He says they are not available because JL changed ...
11 Sep 23, by Phoenix8152
Latest 18 Sep 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:2
:498
Latest by hadenoughnow
18 Sep 23
2nd marriage ending
Hi
I'm looking for info re a 2nd marriage ending. Both of us divorced previously - owned own homes - grown up children - in our early 60's.
He ...
13 Sep 23, by seahorse23
Latest 15 Sep 23 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:3
:389
Latest by WYSPECIAL
15 Sep 23
Divorce and Consent Order £299 (simple clean break
Hi

My STBEX and I have agreed the financial split of assets and child maintenance between us. He is in process of buying new home.

Has anyon ...
13 Jan 20, by blacktulip
Latest 13 Sep 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:6
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Latest by rubytuesday
13 Sep 23
CETV figures?
Hi,
Just went through the ex's E form and have a small question regarding a pension CETV figure. An annual statement in April 2022 stated it was wort ...
11 Sep 23, by Heart2
Latest 12 Sep 23 by Rickoshea
Replies:1
:472
Latest by Rickoshea
12 Sep 23
Consent Orders
My husband is abusive, this is my reason for divorcing him. We attended shuttle mediation to agree a financial settlement. An amount was originally agreed, ...
07 Sep 23, by BaldEagle22
Latest 08 Sep 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:451
Latest by rubytuesday
08 Sep 23
Can I use UK Divorce living abroad?
Hi, newbie here..... Just starting out on this journey!

My question is.... Can you still use the UK divorce courts when living abroad?

We have ...
07 Sep 23, by Barney2201
Latest 08 Sep 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:3
:365
Latest by rubytuesday
08 Sep 23
Form D11 Asking for Directions
I am waiting for a date for the FDR. My husband will not disclose his credit card statements or certain bank account statements. I e lieve he has an investmen ...
08 Sep 23, by Phoenix8152
Replies:0
:255

Costs
My husband is divorcing me after running off with our life savings plus the family car. He has left me with nothing other than my state pension and i am there ...
11 Aug 23, by Phoenix8152
Latest 08 Sep 23 by Phoenix8152
Replies:7
:1003
Latest by Phoenix8152
08 Sep 23
Occupational Rent
Please can someone explain how to claim occupational rent, eg would a claim for this form part of the financial remedy proceedings or would such an application ...
06 Sep 23, by dd1232
Replies:0
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Paying bills on separation
Hi , first post, marriage has been on the rocks for a few years and not improving.

I am 59, wife is 51. No dependent children.

I currently pay ...
26 Aug 23, by Cheeseypete
Latest 27 Aug 23 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:2
:448
Latest by WYSPECIAL
27 Aug 23
Finances
Hi Anyone,

husband 57
temporary seconded job £30k for the last two years this is a yearly elected post and if unelected it drops to £20k a year ...
27 Aug 23, by Cooze
Latest 27 Aug 23 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:298
Latest by WYSPECIAL
27 Aug 23
Applied with solicitor, want to continue without
Hello all,

my then solicitor filed my divorce application last year, divorce then waited whilst myself and partner went through family courts for child ...
25 Aug 23, by Primrose14
Replies:0
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Evidence for Form E
How far back do you need to supply credit card statements when submitting Form E? Part 2.3 iro bank statements request 12 months but part 2.9 iro liabilites doe ...
25 Aug 23, by Heart2
Replies:0
:277

Consent order
Hi! I am recently divorced and the consent order has been approved by the court , since agreeing a figure through my ex wife’s solicitors I am no longer able ...
22 Aug 23, by Matt1111
Latest 23 Aug 23 by Matt1111
Replies:2
:445
Latest by Matt1111
23 Aug 23
Exchange of form E
When you exchange form E. Do you send the same pack (bundle) to the spouse as to the court. Or just the completed form? ...
21 Aug 23, by Customer D
Latest 22 Aug 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:382
Latest by rubytuesday
22 Aug 23
Joint account issue
We are several months away from a Final Hearing. Their is a joint account that requires approval of both parties. One of the parties needs to access funds in th ...
20 Aug 23, by bettydidabooboo
Latest 21 Aug 23 by bettydidabooboo
Replies:2
:302
Latest by bettydidabooboo
21 Aug 23
Disclosure
Hi and I would love a quick response if possible..

with disclosure and 12 months bank statements my husband has only gone from April 2022 to April 2023 ...
07 Aug 23, by Jill007
Latest 18 Aug 23 by Jill007
Replies:4
:387
Latest by Jill007
18 Aug 23
Typical waiting period for 5 day Final Hearing
Hello friends

We had the FDR in beginning of Dec 2022. A Directions hearing was in Feb 2023 said Final Hearing was for first available date after end J ...
07 Aug 23, by bettydidabooboo
Latest 08 Aug 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:695
Latest by hadenoughnow
08 Aug 23
Child Arrangement DRA hearing - do I need legal representation?
Dear friends

Can you please help me decide if I should use a lawyer or self represent? My regular lawyer has had to pull out at the last minute due to ...
08 Aug 23, by bettydidabooboo
Replies:0
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Consent order.
After some advice please.
My ex is keen to have a consent order signed then obtain decree absolute. We have previously both had solicitors however thoug ...
31 Jul 23, by C48
Latest 05 Aug 23 by C48
Replies:8
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Latest by C48
05 Aug 23
Is there a F2F meet group for Dads?
Hi friends

Can you please point me in the direction of a face to face support group for separated Dads that are going through the process.
Looking ...
02 Aug 23, by bettydidabooboo
Replies:0
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Judgment after hearing - how long is too long? 2 weeks? 2 months? 6 months?
We had the final hearing for ancillary relief in early May.

I was an LiP but used a direct access barrister for the hearing.

The case is relat ...
06 Jul 23, by Jason33
Latest 27 Jul 23 by .Charles
Replies:4
:462
Latest by .Charles
27 Jul 23
Financial settlement
Hi,

I'm new here and seeking some advice re: financial settlement please if possible.

Married for 14 years, separated 3 years ago. We bot ...
25 Jul 23, by Chip73
Latest 27 Jul 23 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:3
:746
Latest by WYSPECIAL
27 Jul 23
Consent order stage but….
Hi
My partner is at the form A stage,
but…..

his soon to be ex wife has accused him of poisoning her, bail conditions state no direct or in ...
24 Jul 23, by Lady EM
Replies:0
:280

No order for costs
Form A application made to progress financial matters as deliberate delay tactics being faced. An urgent hearing was allocated for one element of the applicatio ...
21 Jul 23, by Heart2
Latest 24 Jul 23 by .Charles
Replies:1
:241
Latest by .Charles
24 Jul 23
Papers submitted to court
I have submitted papers to the court and my ex solicitor. I have to send papers to HMCTS financial remedy in Harlow. My case is been heard in Lancashire.
19 Jul 23, by Cisbob
Replies:0
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Lack of support for people experiencing distress
Hello. A year ago, my husband ended our marriage without warning or explanation. The day he told me he didn’t want to be with me any more was the last day we ...
16 Jul 23, by SarahJaneSladen
Replies:0
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Have I put too much in my Questionnaire and Statement of Issues
This as a general question on format of documents. Removed for privacy protection ...
14 Jul 23, by Cisbob
Latest 15 Jul 23 by Cisbob
Replies:2
:561
Latest by Cisbob
15 Jul 23
Form G
I am about to have the First Appointment, which is a call for 45 mins. I need to compete my form G and have done so saying I can't proceed because of mis ...
14 Jul 23, by Cisbob
Replies:0
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Consent order
Hi,
Looking for some advice please, how have people found the consent/ clean break order service through wikivorce?
What are the pro's / con's ...
08 Jul 23, by Joelinton
Latest 12 Jul 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:4
:427
Latest by hadenoughnow
12 Jul 23
Matrimonial Home Query
Hello

Our Matrimonial Home has been in my family for 3 generations

Ex was put on the deeds with myself 23 years ago where we lived until the ...
10 Jul 23, by RachAnn
Latest 11 Jul 23 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
11 Jul 23
Can you help please - having my first CAFCASS visit
In advance of a child arrangement hearing I am due to meet with a CAFCASS advisor in a week or so. They have been asked to prepare a Section 7 report. I believe ...
10 Jul 23, by bettydidabooboo
Latest 11 Jul 23 by bettydidabooboo
Replies:1
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Latest by bettydidabooboo
11 Jul 23
Advice on divorce and house please
Hi, I've been advised this is the best place for advice especially when solicitors not responding back ! Can anyone advise best way forward when ex wife is ...
04 Jul 23, by MiserableMan20!
Latest 08 Jul 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:414
Latest by hadenoughnow
08 Jul 23

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