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Life DURING Divorce!

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11 Sep 07 #3170 by annieo
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...and you get to choose which wine you want to drink. You also get to choose what you want to eat, when you want to eat it. Where you want to go and who with. Divorce is never having to ask permission!

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11 Sep 07 #3171 by annieo
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...and you get to choose which wine you want to drink. You also get to choose what you want to eat, when you want to eat it. Where you want to go and who with. Divorce is never having to ask permission!

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11 Sep 07 #3207 by beckster2
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Hi Scottishlady

I know it's hard, I hurt like made and on 'down days' I feel like nothing will ever get better. However, I know that if I don't concentrate on the fun aspects of being single again then I'll be miserable. He's taken the last 14 years of my life and turned it into a load of lies - he's not going to make me miserable for the rest of my life!!

Try and fight for you luv

Becky xx

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11 Sep 07 #3208 by herewegoagain
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Life after Divorce.....The loneliness is hard, especially at weekends, but you can lie in! Till you meet Mr Wonderful, then you can lie in with him!

When you get back from work, cooked your own tea, eat what you like, hardly any mess, and no trying to wake someone(Drongo Brain) up from their tea-time snooze,because they've done some work!

Watch what you like, no-one hogging the sky remote. Read a paper without being moaned at, (someone too thick to learn to read) Waiting for someone to come back from "snooker" or "golf" or "golf and snooker" together!

Go on the internet, without being moaned at, because someone was too thick to know what to do!

Lose loads of weight, and look even more glamorous than with Drongo Brain, and everyone will question his sanity, and then you think "wiser, free and single" and the envy of most of your friends and colleagues who are stuck with Drongo Brains!B)

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11 Sep 07 #3217 by Shelia
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AAAAAAAArGH

Normaly I'd agree with you, but had ******* letter from my sol about what my drongobrain is NOT agreeing to. Why do they have to be so difficult? Does he not understand that if he wants to negotiate, and he says he wants to, he is going to have to agree to something? Or at least make some suggestions.

He doesn't give an inch, which is why we are getting divorced. I will not give up though, I am getting REAllY determined.

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12 Sep 07 #3235 by herewegoagain
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Don't give up, its his loss. Spineless coward! Its hard being in limbo land, but you will look back and see it as a learning curve, and come out of it all stronger. Trust no-one, but listen to everyone.

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