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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

 

Discuss anything 29.1k topics

General divorce discussion area. If you are new to Wikivorce why not start by posting in "Introduce Yourself".
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Introduce Yourself 4834 topics

New to the site? Why not write a short post to introduce yourself and describe your situation. Reach out and connect with our community.

Life After Divorce 1565 topics

So you are finally divorced. What now? When and how do you get back into dating? What plans do you have for your new life? Join the discussion.
Re: Healing seems to be taking a l ...
by DestroyedInDivorce
27 Jun 25

Depression and Stress 2336 topics

Many of us experience depression and stress brought on by divorce and separation. Discuss how you cope, learn from the experience of others.
Re: does the court take depression ...
by wexalor131
05 Jun 25

Relationships 1554 topics

Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.
Re: Love and Sex
by kentkouh
02 Apr 25

General - Divorce 14.4k topics

A place where you can discuss any divorce related topic that didn't seem to fit elsewhere.
Online divorce application
by Ducksinarow3
14 Aug 25

General - Non-Divorce 1310 topics

A place to discuss any topic you like. Career, travel, hobbies, news or anything else of interest.
Pets
by KellyNelly
10 Dec 24

Media Requests 82 topics

Responsible media organisations seeking people's experiences of divorce for constructive articles/programs may post their details here.
Re: DIY divorce
by rubytuesday
14 Mar 22

Book Club 38 topics

This is an area to discuss books ( on any subject )
Re: Book for 10yo only child
by saradanyal94
17 Aug 20

Jokes and Humour 430 topics

A place to share any jokes or humourous stuff with your wiki buddies.
Re: The Goodbye Play List
by JustM3
24 Nov 19
Activities and Hobbies
Re: Hobbies anyone?
by b11
24 Nov 21

The New You 144 topics

The New You
Re: Bryant McGill quote - Letting ...
by Curious53
23 Aug 25
Healthy Living and Eating
Re: Life''s a Marathon not a sprin ...
by romulsdefroz
24 Apr 25
A place to ask for help with those jobs your ex may have handled before separation.
Re: Completing D11 form
by WYSPECIAL
04 Sep 24

Money Saving Tips 29 topics

A place to exchange ideas on how to save money.
Re: Financial assets
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11 May 22
Subject Replies / Latest
Children leaving home
I bottled up my feelings about getting divorced, on the whole, and got on with bringing up my children. The plan had always been that I would stay at home to l ...
10 Jun 07, by Dawn2509
Latest 12 Jun 07 by Dawn2509
Replies:7
:1691
Latest by Dawn2509
12 Jun 07
Elp !! URGENT Answer needed !!!
Hi all. My wifes solicitor has told her to ask me for all keys to the house. Seeing that I still have a lot of proprty still stored there until I find suitable ...
18 May 07, by Dobber
Latest 07 Jun 07 by Dobber
Replies:15
:2500
Latest by Dobber
07 Jun 07
Can a divorce petition be withdrawn at any time.
I'm facing having to consider divorce whilst my wife still carries on holding the beleif that I don't have the guts to go through with it.
My ques ...
06 Jun 07, by goforit
Latest 06 Jun 07 by goforit
Replies:2
:662
Latest by goforit
06 Jun 07
Maskell v maskell post in solicitor forum! Help!
Hi can anyone just have a peek at my post in Maskell V maskell in solicitors forum.

Would gratefully appreciate any response.

06 Jun 07, by Louise11
Replies:0
:424

Ex husband to be has passports...
Hi,

New to this site and glad to have found it.

Can anyone suggest anything.

Ex took passports of children when we split up 8 months ...
04 Jun 07, by wendb69
Latest 06 Jun 07 by LittleMrMike
Replies:7
:1810
Latest by LittleMrMike
06 Jun 07
pressure to get decree nisi signed by petitioner
"hi i need some advise hope someone can help, my x hubby to be has had my ack of service for last 6 weeks and has not applied for decree nisi can i get my ...
04 Jun 07, by marie
Replies:0
:518

How To Start.....and be strong!?!?!
Hi,
I'm new to this site,(so please be gentleB) ).
I have been "considering" divorce for the last three years, I have left once, but was ...
25 May 07, by violet
Latest 03 Jun 07 by lusera
Replies:4
:756
Latest by lusera
03 Jun 07
Moving out!
Please excuse my first post!, I have been seperated from my Wife for over 12 months although still living in the marital home(sleep in the conservatory) we both ...
31 May 07, by palmerp
Latest 02 Jun 07 by palmerp
Replies:5
:727
Latest by palmerp
02 Jun 07
Divorce papers
Hi,
I submitted papers 2 weeks ago, can anyone advise on how long it takes for them to be served?

Regards ...
31 May 07, by Carlton
Latest 01 Jun 07 by wikivorce team
Replies:1
:624
Latest by wikivorce team
01 Jun 07
A little advice pls.
Hi,
First post so hello all.

My partner has been separated from her ex for longer than the five year requirement. She has lost all track of where t ...
30 May 07, by SaintsRock
Latest 30 May 07 by DownButNotOut
Replies:1
:640
Latest by DownButNotOut
30 May 07
Wanna read what Judges should be doing?
Hi all,

Just thought you may all like to look at a website i found

Latest 29 May 07 by DownButNotOut
Replies:1
:706
Latest by DownButNotOut
29 May 07
seperated and stuck
I am 24 and have been married for 3 years but we were togeather for 11 all in all my husband recently found out i was pregnant with our 3rd child and he walked ...
23 May 07, by xdjroox
Latest 25 May 07 by bathsheba
Replies:2
:698
Latest by bathsheba
25 May 07
Advice Please...
We have been to see a solicitor today and are not too sure about the advice given. Could i ask for your opinion's/advice...?

My partner left his w ...
24 May 07, by Alicat
Latest 24 May 07 by wikivorce team
Replies:5
:681
Latest by wikivorce team
24 May 07
Can anyone see any problems
I separated from my wife late '99 after 30 years of marriage. It was amicable and she did not fight against me leaving. I gave her the house and £100 pe ...
24 May 07, by Bornagainbiker
Latest 24 May 07 by Bornagainbiker
Replies:2
:634
Latest by Bornagainbiker
24 May 07
When things turn nasty
Hello all,

I was looking to get divorce and stated to my soon to be ex that i want to do this in the nicest way possible.
But things have turned qu ...
15 May 07, by pintofmild
Latest 24 May 07 by bathsheba
Replies:2
:1053
Latest by bathsheba
24 May 07
Please help! Need some advice
Hi,
Almost a year ago, my wife who I loved dearly walked out.
At the time she said that she didnt want anything (including all the debt and the house) b ...
19 May 07, by niallyboy
Latest 23 May 07 by bathsheba
Replies:2
:632
Latest by bathsheba
23 May 07
needs case?
Can anyone tell me what it means when a judge rules that this case is not a "needs case"? ...
17 May 07, by Louise11
Latest 18 May 07 by DownButNotOut
Replies:1
:954
Latest by DownButNotOut
18 May 07
Need some opinion, Pls!!
I’ve been with my husband for nearly 5 years and married for 2 years and 5 months.

My husband who had an affair with hi ...
16 May 07, by Ozlion104
Latest 18 May 07 by Ozlion104
Replies:5
:795
Latest by Ozlion104
18 May 07
Naming co respondents
Hi all,
I may be forced to name a co respondent in a case of adultery.

Does a co respondent have to acknowledge receipt of their copy of the petiti ...
15 May 07, by Carlton
Latest 16 May 07 by wikivorce team
Replies:4
:883
Latest by wikivorce team
16 May 07
money
i have been married 5yrs with husband 9 alltogether,he desided at xmas he wants a divorce, i moved to my own rented house 3wks ago he also rents,he works and ea ...
10 May 07, by sharon
Latest 11 May 07 by wikivorce team
Replies:1
:619
Latest by wikivorce team
11 May 07
staying over or living together
I am in the process of getting divorced. I have been seeing a chap for a while and he stays over my house 2-3 times a week. All his bills are addressed to his ...
26 Apr 07, by KateA27
Latest 08 May 07 by Melanie75008
Replies:5
:727
Latest by Melanie75008
08 May 07
Questions after questions
Back ground - I am the Applicant in a long case commenced in Feb 2004, I secured residency of my two youngest children in July 2006 (ex wife is acoholic), the o ...
30 Apr 07, by Lynton
Latest 05 May 07 by wikivorce team
Replies:1
:592
Latest by wikivorce team
05 May 07
Post question today for quick reply!
Welcome to the Discuss Anything forum,

In order to kick off some activity in these new forums the wikivorce team are happy to reply to all questions po ...
22 Mar 07, by wikivorce team
Latest 05 May 07 by wikivorce team
Replies:4
:674
Latest by wikivorce team
05 May 07

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