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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

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	Introduce Yourself 4834 topics New to the site? Why not write a short post to introduce yourself and describe your situation. Reach out and connect with our community.	Financial Clean Break from Abu ... by Jamo 21 Mar 25
	Life After Divorce 1565 topics So you are finally divorced. What now? When and how do you get back into dating? What plans do you have for your new life? Join the discussion.	Re: Healing seems to be taking a l ... by DestroyedInDivorce 27 Jun 25
	Depression and Stress 2336 topics Many of us experience depression and stress brought on by divorce and separation. Discuss how you cope, learn from the experience of others.	Re: does the court take depression ... by wexalor131 05 Jun 25
	Relationships 1554 topics Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.	Re: Love and Sex by kentkouh 02 Apr 25
	General - Divorce 14.4k topics A place where you can discuss any divorce related topic that didn't seem to fit elsewhere.	Online divorce application by Ducksinarow3 14 Aug 25
	General - Non-Divorce 1310 topics A place to discuss any topic you like. Career, travel, hobbies, news or anything else of interest.	Pets by KellyNelly 10 Dec 24
	Media Requests 82 topics Responsible media organisations seeking people's experiences of divorce for constructive articles/programs may post their details here.	Re: DIY divorce by rubytuesday 14 Mar 22
	Book Club 38 topics This is an area to discuss books ( on any subject )	Re: Book for 10yo only child by saradanyal94 17 Aug 20
	Jokes and Humour 430 topics A place to share any jokes or humourous stuff with your wiki buddies.	Re: The Goodbye Play List by JustM3 24 Nov 19
	Activities and Hobbies 118 topics Activities and Hobbies	Re: Hobbies anyone? by b11 24 Nov 21
	The New You 144 topics The New You	Re: Bryant McGill quote - Letting ... by Curious53 23 Aug 25
	Healthy Living and Eating 42 topics Healthy Living and Eating	Re: Life''s a Marathon not a sprin ... by romulsdefroz 24 Apr 25
	DIY and Practical tips 57 topics A place to ask for help with those jobs your ex may have handled before separation.	Re: Completing D11 form by WYSPECIAL 04 Sep 24
	Money Saving Tips 29 topics A place to exchange ideas on how to save money.	Re: Financial assets by .Charles 11 May 22

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Pets Hi, I wondered if anyone has any advice on pets. We agreed at the time of breaking up that I would keep the dogs. At first he didn't want to see ... 10 Dec 24, by KellyNelly	Replies:0 :485
Applicant is stalling divorce Hello, I'm in the current situation and not really sure how I should be proceeding. In May of 2024 my ex spouse applied as a solo applicant for divorce ... 25 Nov 24, by trappedagain	Replies:0 :409
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Scottish Divorce process Hi all, I'm just looking for some feedback on the divoirce timeline in Scotland. My STBXW announced 5 weeks ago she wanted a divorce. There were a ... 05 Nov 24, by DanMac88	Replies:0 :474
Questions following form E submission Hi, I am new here. I have been seperated for a year following a long period of problems. I have been in a long term marriage. The matter is now in the han ... 31 Oct 24, by Astra pad Latest 31 Oct 24 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :493	Latest by WYSPECIAL 31 Oct 24
Struggling with a 10 year old divorce Good evening, I applied for a divorce from my 10 year estranged partner late last year. I was told that I am already a respondent to an outstanding di ... 22 Oct 24, by Jbobz	Replies:0 :318
Wok tastic..... I am fast becoming inseperable from my wok... Stir fries are so simple, healthy and cheap! Dont buy the packeted stir fry stuff from the supermarke ... 25 May 13, by esox11 Latest 08 Oct 24 by Leenaw	Replies:4 :1245	Latest by Leenaw 08 Oct 24
Telling my STBX about a new relationship I finally decided to end my 11 year marriage in August 2023. One of the main reasons was due to the fact that the marriage was never consummated due to my wife& ... 19 Sep 24, by A Quiet Thing Latest 03 Oct 24 by A Quiet Thing	Replies:6 :863	Latest by A Quiet Thing 03 Oct 24
It seems like nothing is being accomplished My wife and I separated, initially temporarily, in February when I moved out at her request. She informed me she was divorcing me 2-3 months later and I got the ... 27 Sep 24, by ThisIsGoingWell Latest 02 Oct 24 by A Quiet Thing	Replies:3 :390	Latest by A Quiet Thing 02 Oct 24
Help completing D180 form prior to obtaining an Apostille Hi there Recently managed to navigate the Divorce Final Order which included a Financial Remedy Consent Order which has been approved. As I need to u ... 29 Sep 24, by Jules001!!	Replies:0 :565
Please help me my Husband divorce me Hi everyone I looking for some advice, my ex of 17yrs is going to divorce me. We have two children 3 months ago my H served me with the news he been che ... 09 May 23, by Jym Latest 24 Sep 24 by vadim.karp	Replies:1 :500	Latest by vadim.karp 24 Sep 24
What does this letter mean? I am in the process of divorce but have not agreed to final order as my ex is refusing a full disclosure (re his new partner that he lives with). My solicit ... 14 Sep 24, by BerryPie Latest 14 Sep 24 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :600	Latest by WYSPECIAL 14 Sep 24
Petitioner not sworn affadavit 6 years on Hi all, Daft as it may sound, despite being around Wikivorce for over 6 years, I am stil no closer to a conclusion. Advice please: Dear Forme ... 01 Nov 13, by mike62 Latest 13 Sep 24 by mike62 1 2	Replies:7 :904	Latest by mike62 13 Sep 24
Undisclosed Assets ! After my ex completely took me for everything as he said he would, at the time I could not keep going on fighting, I was left with a large mortgage but happier. ... 12 Sep 24, by Cassey Latest 12 Sep 24 by EMC3419	Replies:1 :392	Latest by EMC3419 12 Sep 24
Domestic Abuse Hello I have heard that if there is domestic abuse involved that the court process may be changed from the norm and as ive suffered domestic abuse and the p ... 10 Sep 24, by AG	Replies:0 :279
D180 Form Completion Hello, like so many others in this forum I am needing to complete the D180 Form and like everyone else I am confused by the lack of instruction / clarity on the ... 09 Sep 24, by DnR McCroo	Replies:0 :290
Post Form E - Reluctance to engage I'm the respondent in the divorce proceedings. We have exchanged Form E's. Petitioners Form E was submitted without a si ... 07 Sep 24, by Bunklyfunks	Replies:0 :252
Processing the Pain of Divorce at Work I have recently shared what I have learned in my divorce more than 10 years ago in a podcast interview and also on my blog. I hope my words can give you some co ... 06 Sep 24, by DVFE1111	Replies:0 :380
Completing D11 form Hi, I have applied for a divorce via the Gov.UK website after 11 years of separation, due to domestic abuse. I don't have my husband's emai ... 03 Sep 24, by finallydivorce! Latest 04 Sep 24 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:2 :767	Latest by WYSPECIAL 04 Sep 24
Divorce and financial settlement My spouse and I got married in beginning of 2015. I have two young kids aged 8 and 4 with him. I have not seen him since 2021 december. He moved to Dubai ... 28 Aug 24, by Sona@92 Latest 01 Sep 24 by EMC3419	Replies:3 :387	Latest by EMC3419 01 Sep 24
Hi there Just wanted to say hello I'm new here and representing myself ... 01 Sep 24, by Eireney Latest 01 Sep 24 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :284	Latest by WYSPECIAL 01 Sep 24
Final Order Processing Time? Hi, both me and the ex have done the bits we needed to do on the govt website about two weeks ago now but still waiting for final order to be approved, ... 27 Aug 24, by jenc41 Latest 29 Aug 24 by jenc41	Replies:2 :672	Latest by jenc41 29 Aug 24
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Help I'm after some help, my wife decided to end our marriage but I still love her. We have a 10 year old daughter, we have a joint mortgage, and we have an ... 14 Aug 24, by Wheels123 Latest 24 Aug 24 by hadenoughnow	Replies:5 :344	Latest by hadenoughnow 24 Aug 24
Really need help to find a way forward A very brief overview of my situation - I've Been with my wife for 20 years, married for 11, and have 2 young boys. I found out at the ... 24 Aug 24, by DB Latest 24 Aug 24 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :206	Latest by hadenoughnow 24 Aug 24
People are who people are Hello everyone! At the age of 59 (nearly 60!) and having been married for almost 34 years, I have finally concluded that ‘people are who people are’. Pe ... 25 Jul 24, by OldBailey Latest 11 Aug 24 by EMC3419	Replies:3 :437	Latest by EMC3419 11 Aug 24
Hello - Divorced but still have problems Hello - I am new to this site and would really welcome some advice. I have been divorced some 20 years and part of my consent order was to have the house tr ... 08 Aug 24, by Suejlyn Latest 10 Aug 24 by Suejlyn	Replies:2 :336	Latest by Suejlyn 10 Aug 24
D11 FORM I am having difficulties in filling the D11 form My ex applied for divorce in 2010 which i didnt respond due to untrue reasons. I finally applied for divo ... 06 Aug 24, by Funwell123 Latest 07 Aug 24 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :407	Latest by hadenoughnow 07 Aug 24
Postal address Recently divorced, jointly owned marital home on market for sale, ex has an occupation order allowing them to remain in home until property sells. CAO in place ... 01 Aug 24, by dd1232 Latest 04 Aug 24 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:5 :280	Latest by WYSPECIAL 04 Aug 24
Seek help and advice desperately Dear all !! I desperately seek some help on my case as am not sure what to do or rather what will happen next and am quite anxious. My wife applied for divorc ... 17 Jul 24, by sandeeppatro Latest 21 Jul 24 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :317	Latest by hadenoughnow 21 Jul 24
Respondent applying for Decree Absolute Decree Nisi was granted in 2021, with ex being the applicant. She did not then apply for Decree Absolute, and has been non-responsive in attempted communication ... 17 Jul 24, by Freedompath Latest 21 Jul 24 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :418	Latest by hadenoughnow 21 Jul 24
Narcissist I am 59. Married officially ten yrs. Physically separated 8yrs due to his alcoholism. But co-habited amicably for 8yrs. Elderly mother living with us. 3yrs ago ... 06 Jul 24, by ReebyLee Latest 07 Jul 24 by hadenoughnow	Replies:3 :283	Latest by hadenoughnow 07 Jul 24
Form P Good afternoon everyone! Maybe somebody could help, I'm struggling here... My partner is going through divorce, his ex is after half of his Army ... 25 Jun 24, by Alex87 Latest 26 Jun 24 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :613	Latest by hadenoughnow 26 Jun 24
Relocating Hello Just wondering if anyone would point me in the right direction please. Been divorced for a year now. Ex works abroad, has always done. We have 2 ... 22 Jun 24, by Mum of 2 Latest 24 Jun 24 by rubytuesday	Replies:2 :287	Latest by rubytuesday 24 Jun 24
Purjury Hi, I've got a final hearing on finances coming up, to be heard by the high court, that involves various conduct matters. I am acting as a litigan ... 15 Jun 24, by gaiusmarius Latest 15 Jun 24 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :300	Latest by hadenoughnow 15 Jun 24
Advice needed Hi I'm desperate for some advice.my wife cheated on me a year and a half ago. She fell pregnant and the father of the baby was in doubt. I started divorce ... 10 Jun 24, by Ant86 Latest 11 Jun 24 by Rickoshea	Replies:1 :352	Latest by Rickoshea 11 Jun 24

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Read our latest Financial Settlements guide (2021)

What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

Discuss anything 29.1k topics

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