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jay160602
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27 Aug 07 #2474 by jay160602

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I don't think Chris is envious of the fat coacher being with his ex wife & stepkids!!!!

Its the abuse & shocking behaviour towards him
that he has got to get over.

Sera
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27 Aug 07 #2487 by Sera

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..agreed! But we can only be victimised whilst we allow the abuser to have any effect. If you called 'check-mate' on your opponant, they'd have no one else to blame.

Game over!

What I meant was another partner will not fayre better.

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27 Aug 07 #2489 by jay160602

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chris's Ex & the Fat Coacher was a match made in heaven, they deserve to be together, but not with Chris's money!

Sera
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27 Aug 07 #2497 by Sera

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Yep. Sad fact of life. My first marriage ended ten years ago.
My ex walked away with new internet lovely girlfriend, who now lives off my assets!

She didn't bring any of her own over from the USA, and just parked up in my life, with my husband, and profits from the hard work I did with him for 16 yrs!

It took me ages to recover, and trust again, and finally I married again, only to be shafted again, by the 'nicest bloke in the whole world' (according to his friends!)

gone1
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27 Aug 07 #2504 by gone1

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Sera wrote:

..agreed! But we can only be victimised whilst we allow the abuser to have any effect. If you called 'check-mate' on your opponant, they'd have no one else to blame.

Game over!

What I meant was another partner will not fayre better.

Sera. What do you mean by this? In my case I had to walk on egg shells. I needed her signiture on my mortgage so I had to tread carefully. I lived on tenterhooks after I was frogmarched down to sign the seperation and fictitious loan agreement. She would not sign off on my mortgage until I did. Once it was signed though she would threten to pull out of the deal and I would have been sunk. Chris.

Sera
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27 Aug 07 #2506 by Sera

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I just mean, that old saying 'don't let the bast*rds get to you'.

I'm in the same boat, I'm sinking, I'm agreeing...

gone1
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27 Aug 07 #2515 by gone1

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Sera wrote:

I just mean, that old saying 'don't let the bast*rds get to you'.

I'm in the same boat, I'm sinking, I'm agreeing...

Abd I am agreeing to your agreement ha ha. Yea dont let um grind you down. They dont and wont. I will probably get shafted in court but at the end of the day I am fine now. I have a way to go but I have come a long long way. My life is happy now. I just have this sh*t to go thru. When thats done so will I. Chris.

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