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will i have to sell? i am just starting a divorce he cheated on me and denied it of course its a year since he left i dont want him but i want the house for the kids and myself we h ... 27 Jul 08, by ali_672 Latest 29 Jul 08 by ali_672	Replies:2 :572	Latest by ali_672 29 Jul 08
Hesitant to provide evidence I believe in a criminal case a defendant has the right to see evidence against them prior to a hearing, but is this the same in a divorce court? A form ... 26 Jul 08, by aspeed Latest 28 Jul 08 by aspeed 1 2	Replies:13 :1451	Latest by aspeed 28 Jul 08
. ... 28 Jul 08, by LittleBlackDress Latest 28 Jul 08 by IKNOWNOW	Replies:2 :623	Latest by IKNOWNOW 28 Jul 08
Me - the Respondent My husband has applied for a divorce on unreasonable behavour. The only piece I agree is correct on his petition is the date of seperation. The rest is lies, I ... 28 Jul 08, by UnluckyOne Latest 28 Jul 08 by suzannec30 1 2	Replies:9 :1230	Latest by suzannec30 28 Jul 08
decree nisi rejected 3 times in two years! my xtb wont sign the appendix address also I have evidense that my xtb got an affadavit stating she was living abroad- in fact she wasnt waht is the ... 28 Jul 08, by FLASHMAN	Replies:0 :430
Re-marriage while divorce impending Hi everyone, Is it possible to re-marry once the decree nisi has been granted or would I have to wait for the decree absolute? Your response i ... 28 Jul 08, by claimant1 Latest 28 Jul 08 by Young again	Replies:5 :503	Latest by Young again 28 Jul 08
court Hi just wonderin Hearing of nisi on tuesday sol says i dont need to attend. Shouldd I is there any benefit ? What does he have to do? ... 27 Jul 08, by gorgeous Latest 27 Jul 08 by gorgeous	Replies:2 :449	Latest by gorgeous 27 Jul 08
I feel trapped My ex and i split nearly four months ago. He has only recently explained his departure...he loves me but is not in love with me anymore. This is after 17 yrs (1 ... 27 Jul 08, by charis Latest 27 Jul 08 by mrsnomore 1 2	Replies:7 :1225	Latest by mrsnomore 27 Jul 08
Help - He keeps changing his mind!!! Hi all, I am hoping that someone can help me....I originally agreed th ... 25 Jul 08, by jenb Latest 26 Jul 08 by Mneme	Replies:4 :706	Latest by Mneme 26 Jul 08
he wont leave the garage hiya can anyone help me ive just got divorced and gone through court at long last for the finances etc the judge awarded me the house woohoooooooooooo lol there ... 25 Jul 08, by vickster Latest 25 Jul 08 by topaz 1 2	Replies:8 :1220	Latest by topaz 25 Jul 08
doesn't stick to the court order? I had my FDR hearing last week and me and my ex decided to go for a 70-30 split of assets from the sale of 2 property's. He agreed that both houses go on the m ... 23 Jul 08, by mother_of_two Latest 25 Jul 08 by mother_of_two	Replies:3 :520	Latest by mother_of_two 25 Jul 08
Help what does financial poceedings mean Just had an e-mail from my sol. and as it's Friday evening I I can't ask her what it means. Can anyone help? It says my stbx has his financial infor ... 25 Jul 08, by megan Latest 25 Jul 08 by megan	Replies:4 :467	Latest by megan 25 Jul 08
QUERY RE: DISCLOSING FINANCES I have received a letter from my husbands solicitor requesting all my financial details including 6 months bank statements, pensions etc, etc. I am una ... 25 Jul 08, by festa Latest 25 Jul 08 by Skip 1 2	Replies:8 :1340	Latest by Skip 25 Jul 08
How long I have before I apply fo Decree Absolute Hi, I have decided to file for divorce ASAP on grounds of adultery. I think the sooner the better. The only thing I am not sure about is if there is a dead ... 25 Jul 08, by Petrof Latest 25 Jul 08 by Young again	Replies:2 :596	Latest by Young again 25 Jul 08
Scared of costs I need to start divorce proceedings asap but I'm really scared about the costs. My H has threatened to start things, divorcing me on grounds of adultery which I ... 24 Jul 08, by redflowergirl Latest 24 Jul 08 by poppy5	Replies:2 :589	Latest by poppy5 24 Jul 08
Is it too late for me to divorce him?? I have signed the very first court papers, the one where they set our the particulars for the divorce etc. Does anybody know if it is too late for me t ... 24 Jul 08, by Tallulah1 Latest 24 Jul 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :594	Latest by mike62 24 Jul 08
Ex Wont Allow Access For Valuation Hi everyone, first post for me. Im getting divorced from a very bitter ex and I have a massive problem. He will not allow any valuation to be done on ... 22 Jul 08, by scallyally Latest 23 Jul 08 by Young again 1 2	Replies:9 :4230	Latest by Young again 23 Jul 08
Decree absolute before Financial Settlement? Hello all, Is this OK to do? Can I send off for decree absolute before a finacial settlement (consent order) is agreed? ... 21 Jul 08, by binloder43 Latest 23 Jul 08 by binloder43	Replies:6 :693	Latest by binloder43 23 Jul 08
Help Urgent! International Divorce My s2bx and I split about 7 weeks ago, he works and is resident abroad although currently commutes to and from Scotland, he spends long stretches away. I found ... 23 Jul 08, by bluesky Latest 23 Jul 08 by bluesky	Replies:6 :866	Latest by bluesky 23 Jul 08
Married in the USA how do i get divorced Hello Wiki peeps Can you help a friend of my family The story so far woman in her twentys visits the USA meets a guy a few months later they a ... 23 Jul 08, by dukey Latest 23 Jul 08 by LittleMrMike	Replies:2 :618	Latest by LittleMrMike 23 Jul 08
sad mess Hubby and I married in 2004. Six months later, for work reasons, I moved almost 400 miles away and since then we have only spent holidays and 2 weekends per mon ... 23 Jul 08, by KITTYEYES Latest 23 Jul 08 by KITTYEYES	Replies:2 :606	Latest by KITTYEYES 23 Jul 08
How long for Decree Nisi? Hi, Divorce petition mid Feb 2008. I have not heard anything yet regarding the Decree Nisi? Is that normal? What is a normal timeframe? Form E's already ex ... 23 Jul 08, by Huska Latest 23 Jul 08 by Gingerkitty 1 2	Replies:7 :1240	Latest by Gingerkitty 23 Jul 08
bank accounts after seperation Bank accounts opened after seperation - nothing to hide here, just i put money away monthly for things and just wondered if would be best opening new account fo ... 22 Jul 08, by Tinkerbelle Latest 22 Jul 08 by redoctober	Replies:2 :562	Latest by redoctober 22 Jul 08
Decree Absolute How will i know if the EX has applied for the Decree Absolute and will i automatically recieve a copy from the court? The 6 weeks was up last wednesday and i wa ... 22 Jul 08, by welshdoll Latest 22 Jul 08 by welshdoll 1 2	Replies:9 :1272	Latest by welshdoll 22 Jul 08
Divorce Proceedings My Parner has been going through divorce proceedings for 5 years (we have been together for 2). She seems detirmined to take him to the cleaners. They have 3 ... 21 Jul 08, by frustratedpartner Latest 22 Jul 08 by Young again	Replies:2 :536	Latest by Young again 22 Jul 08
The Divorce Route Hope someone can help here Me and my wife have talked about seperating although it is me that wants to leave I could do with some pratical advice. ... 21 Jul 08, by purequo Latest 22 Jul 08 by redoctober	Replies:2 :521	Latest by redoctober 22 Jul 08
Wanting money My husbands family lives abroad and some time back his father died, I believe leaving his estate would have been dividied between my X2B and his brothers. He ha ... 22 Jul 08, by cisco Latest 22 Jul 08 by cisco	Replies:2 :449	Latest by cisco 22 Jul 08
bank accounts Hi there, sorry if this is in the wrong place, but I couldn't find a relevant section in the Finance area. May be a naive question, but if you were get ... 21 Jul 08, by Gingercat Latest 22 Jul 08 by rainy	Replies:4 :557	Latest by rainy 22 Jul 08
Irrational, lost and left completely in the dark. I got married 2.5 years ago to someone i deeply cared about and gained a stepdaughter whice was awesome. We recently moved home as part of a new job th ... 19 Jul 08, by Chroma Latest 22 Jul 08 by Chroma	Replies:6 :622	Latest by Chroma 22 Jul 08
DO I NEED A SEPERATION ORDER? do i need a seperation order before we divorce if so any one know how much this costs? who pays for it? confused and in debt:( ... 21 Jul 08, by bluegirl60 Latest 22 Jul 08 by LittleMrMike 1 2	Replies:7 :1286	Latest by LittleMrMike 22 Jul 08
Where to start ... posting on behalf of my sister so apologies if detail is missing. My sister and husband have been married and living together for more than 10 years. t ... 21 Jul 08, by paul10l Latest 22 Jul 08 by paul10l	Replies:2 :556	Latest by paul10l 22 Jul 08
Any advice please? I separated from my wife when I told her that I wasn't sure that I was in love with her anymore when we had 2 boys, one who was 2 1/2 years and the other was on ... 22 Jul 08, by jonoaten Latest 22 Jul 08 by lillyanne	Replies:5 :465	Latest by lillyanne 22 Jul 08
Seperated and thinking of Divorce Hi, This is my first post so please be kind. I am currently waiting for my wife to move into rented accomodation (seems to take ages) with my ... 21 Jul 08, by deanhall Latest 21 Jul 08 by polar	Replies:1 :481	Latest by polar 21 Jul 08
help needed please Hi all a couple got divorced 12yrs ago and the FMH was rented accomodation at that time, the ex wife left and husband remained in the property with the chil ... 21 Jul 08, by froofroo Latest 21 Jul 08 by polar	Replies:1 :509	Latest by polar 21 Jul 08
amending pertition hi hoping someone can help me in the middle of diy divorce on grounds of unreasonable behavior ie in dec 2008 my wife told me she did not love me anymore and sa ... 21 Jul 08, by steve01 Latest 21 Jul 08 by steve01	Replies:2 :493	Latest by steve01 21 Jul 08
Can i just divorce ? without getting financials sorted ?? ok guys sorry if this is a really daft question... 21 Jul 08, by Daisy049 Latest 21 Jul 08 by Ephelia	Replies:1 :427	Latest by Ephelia 21 Jul 08
Husband is using kids to get me to stay Hi - it is a very long story. The long and short of it is, for various reasons including prolonged anger issues, unemployment and so on... I came to the conclus ... 24 Jun 08, by onestepatatime Latest 20 Jul 08 by gorgeous	Replies:4 :567	Latest by gorgeous 20 Jul 08
Shuttle mediation/willingness to mediate I am divorcing ex for unreasonable behaviour (on line dating whilst I was pregnant) and we are supposed to go to mediation on Wendesday. i agreed to it ... 20 Jul 08, by Triggerbump Latest 20 Jul 08 by gorgeous	Replies:1 :488	Latest by gorgeous 20 Jul 08
Am I being unrealistic? Sorry - jumping right in with my issues here, just joined. My marriage is over and I want to get divorced. I'm not feeling negative enough towards him ... 20 Jul 08, by littlemama Latest 20 Jul 08 by Triggerbump	Replies:5 :567	Latest by Triggerbump 20 Jul 08
Married in Japan - need to get divorced hi cant seem to find much information on this, but would be good if someone could point me in the right direction. me and wife got married in ... 19 Jul 08, by snomy_mcnoodle Latest 19 Jul 08 by Kalamari	Replies:1 :649	Latest by Kalamari 19 Jul 08

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