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If I Kick Start Divorce????
12 Aug 07 #1914
by Sera
...have no idea how long the paperwork takes. But it now sounds like you're moving on (in your head) which is good for your well-being.
Who knows what was going on in his mind, but one day, you just wake up and find your husband no longer wants a marriage.
Mine has not left the home, just kills me with the silence. He's now conducting a 'single life' (having thrown his wedding ring away, and citing that he can sleep with who he wants now). That's painful. I wish he'd just leave, because I'm stuck here in Limbo.
After weeks of pain and shock, you're acclimatising to the possibility of a life without him. As the weeks and months pass, that's now becoming the more attractive option.
Like my husband, he delivered the news, and the only place he disapeared to is UP HIS A*SE! .... they'll come grovelling back, when they realise the grass isn't greener the other side.
By the time they do: we'll be in such a 'well' space, and hate them so much, we'll not welcome them back.
Good luck with the 'legal' side, come here to moan!
Reply from Sera
...have no idea how long the paperwork takes. But it now sounds like you're moving on (in your head) which is good for your well-being.Who knows what was going on in his mind, but one day, you just wake up and find your husband no longer wants a marriage.
Mine has not left the home, just kills me with the silence. He's now conducting a 'single life' (having thrown his wedding ring away, and citing that he can sleep with who he wants now). That's painful. I wish he'd just leave, because I'm stuck here in Limbo.
After weeks of pain and shock, you're acclimatising to the possibility of a life without him. As the weeks and months pass, that's now becoming the more attractive option.
Like my husband, he delivered the news, and the only place he disapeared to is UP HIS A*SE!
.... they'll come grovelling back, when they realise the grass isn't greener the other side.By the time they do: we'll be in such a 'well' space, and hate them so much, we'll not welcome them back.
Good luck with the 'legal' side, come here to moan!
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