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02 Sep 07 #2749 by gone1
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Sorry to be blunt herewego but I think your bloke is weak. Just like I used to be. But I managed to break away. He could too.

In all this where are you? Can you wait forever?

Forgive me I am going to be rude. You said you showed him a great time and I presume that he had something with you and why did he go back to her? Why? I dont doubt that you pushed all his buttons. Ok this is just me so take with a pinch. I have met someone. She is all that I need and more. Now I wouldnt dream of going back. Apart from my partner disowning me, my sister would too and she has been my rock. But hey we are all different.

I had my chance though. I wobbled if that is the right word. It was June 2006 and a month after the undying love decleration at the kitchen table. She was having doubts about him and faced with the choice of having her back I just couldnt. Thing is that when they do nasty things to you it fataly damages the relationship. I would have thought that your blokes relationship was beyond repair. Somethings just cant be patched up. Sometimes its better to just move on to better things. I just dont understand your bloke. Chris.

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