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IF TIME TRAVEL EXISTED

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02 Feb 09 #85403 by Tia
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Hey, jacsmum I feel for you. :(
If you want me to I'll let him borrow my time machine to come back to you but ONLY if it's what you want and only if he promises hand on heart to treat you like a princess. :silly:

Otherwise I'll say a big, fat NO and leave him to stew in his own misery for the rest of his natural ;) (I'm not bitter tonight guys, honestly..)

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02 Feb 09 #85404 by jacsmum
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Thanks Tia - but I don't want him! He can stew in his own juice as far as I am concerned :woohoo:

however, if he were to use the time machine to make everything up to his son then that is fine by me :)

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02 Feb 09 #85406 by Puddytat
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I would never change things. Lifes a journey with many different paths..Without darling ex no gorgeous little boys. I'd do it all again one hundred times over to have them!

Also many happy times and sad times. Together we grew and then it would seem (according to him) grew apart.

With things that I know now I will move on and fall in love again! Who know's what's round the corner!

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02 Feb 09 #85407 by NellNoRegrets
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You can't go back. And if I could go back, being the person I am now, rather than the person I was then, I wouldn't have hooked up with my ex, because he'd be the person he is now, instead of the person he was then.

I think! Anyway I only hooked up with him because the man I really fancied didn't feel the same way. That wouldn't have worked out either, but that's life, eh!

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02 Feb 09 #85487 by WeeKate
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I'd go back to last April and instead of signing the loan agreement for his audi tt, cancel the sale and see if she was still interested! He drove a ford Ka before then.

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03 Feb 09 #85501 by hawaythelads
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I only had to have stayed for one more drink at the OD's Rugby club and I would never have met my ex misus.Because then I would have gone to Happy howard's wine bar to jump off the bar whilst singing American pie rather than having gone to my sisters mickey mouse engagement party at her flat and meeting the ex.My sister btw is still not married to him!!!!lol
You see everyone thinks that it's the big decisions that alter your life but they don't it's the really litle inconsequential seemingly insignificant ones that lead to the life changing events!
All the best
Pete xx

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03 Feb 09 #85507 by bevs
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^ Ha ha my kind of guy!! Rugby Clubs, Wine Bars and Don McLean -good man.

In hindsight I should have run a mile the first time he peed on my bed in the middle of night whilst drunk!

However I think I would have to choose C because like others have already said I have two wonderful little boys which I would otherwise not have, or I might have but they would be different if you see what I mean. :unsure:

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